Advice needed really sad =(

hey im not the prettyist girl on the planet but i do find it hard looking for the right guy maybe im not looking hard enough ive been single 3yrs my last relationship was pretty tough one glad im out of it but now im really lonely and unhappy just want a cuddle end of the day and someone to say everything will be okies =( will i ever find a cute guy to share my feelings with =(

I wish I had an answer for you. My problem is I am the oldest Anime fan on the site. Like you I "just want a cuddle end of the day" and to share my feelings with but everyone else on the site is less than half my age. Nothing I can do about that. I see girls my age at cons but I am pretty awkward at getting something going. You are in your twenties. It's too early to panic yet. Hang in there because you sound quite nice. Some lucky guy will notice your true beauty and things will will be better. Even I am still optimistic about my chances!

Honestly that is something everyone wants. it's a sense of security and trust. unfortunately it's also something people have to work really hard for and then strive to keep. to be honest, it's a fucking drag (excuse my language). So while I continue my search for someone that in my eyes would be worth the effort of chasing after, i shall continue on my own as a counselor, a mentor, and a friend to anyone who would need it. or maybe just until love decides to slap me in the face again....

Well, here's a story. I dated someone online last year. Every time until that moment I met him I thought I wanted a boyfriend and I was lonely and unhappy then once the relationship started I just wanted to be alone, along with other things. I learned that I was unhappy with myself and how can I bring someone else into a relationship if to be loved you have to learn to love yourself first. I also learned that we can't expect other people to help us with our own problems and that love isn't really all "pink". I think in reality I just wanted some company not so much a boyfriend. So I ended up getting a chihuahua :) Life is much better now lol I still want a boyfriend, but once I'm happy with myself.

just like to say thank you for the comments ridingcat bus im pretty sure you will find someone its just matter of waiting and seeing wha life brings you sound like a kind guy im pretty sure it wont be long and thank you it really guess rely on the waiting game -_- key thats pretty true think im just going to focus on my self and go out with my friends lot more and see wha happens you never kno i guess kimiko what was it like dating a other guy you met from the net did the relationship last long .. i understand where your coming from because sometimes is good to be alone in one sense but other times its good to be loved for once ya i got a cat which he keeps me happy too ive had him 6years and hes beeen there for me a lot when i split up with my ex he was there for me but now i guess it just a search game to see who i can find

MISSION OBJECTIVES: CHEER UP animegirl86 : COMPLETE MISSION ACCOMPLISHED REWARDS: 1 POTATO CHIP 1 DEATH NOTE REFERENCE 3 HUGS 1 really bad joke...... <<

The problem is people get too serious. Why cant we all date someone and just enjoy it. To me a relationship should be a friendship as well. Sharing hobbies and doing things you both enjoy. No need to jump into anything. Youll find someone just give it time and enjoy life : ) oh and watch lots of anime

key haha you make me smile =D REWARDS GIVEN TO KEY: ** Gives potato chips ** Gives key a hugs ^^ ** Shares deathnote refernce ** hmmm a really bad joke ... Why does Naruto cross the street? because it is a filler episode soz that was really bad joke hehe hope ya okies too