dom/sub relationships?

Depending on the scale of it, I personally like lite Dom/Sub relationships. I don't like stuff to the extent of verbal abuse/BDSM though. I'm super into painful pleasure. If somebody's in a relationship with me I want to make sure they are happy. If I have a more-dominant partner, I know what they want and what I can do because they straight up tell me. All I hope is that they aren't to demanding. Dominant people aren't that shy and it makes talking a lot easier for me in most occasions. I personally find happiness in helping people, so I guess this D/S stuff works out.

I would have to echo aschthebloody's view here. I can't see myself hurling abusive words at a partner since we are equals. Kinky pillow talk maybe but no show of force.

My current girlfriend is into this in all forms. She always asks me if she should go do X or does she have permission to do Y thing. Always loyal, never questions, fully trusts me to decide for her. It seems I was born into this role and she just triggered it. She likes to have a master who is in control, yet kind and considerate of his serva, which I am. I do not physically or verbally abuse her, if she does something wrong, I simply tell her she has been a bad girl, then ask her what she has to say for her actions. I listen, and take action to prevent it from happening again. She lives to serve and pleasure me, but our relationship I would not call unordinary or sexist - she willingly chose this, given the opportunity of equality. She knows its available at any time.

I am so jealous, elder reaper. Sounds like you have a good girlfriend. As for me, I love to be dominant sexually speaking, but I'm not into being controlling. I like the unexpected.

I've never heard of these types of relationships. Domintrixes, ja, but not like an entire relationship. sounds very nice though.