We just met.. so why do I find myself missing you already?

Anybody else experience this? Someone you recently started talking too and supposedly you guys click pretty well and after that small amount of time you miss them after a couple of days. I hate admitting it because it seems weird. Idk what to think

Some of it is legit appreciation. Some of it is our own loneliness and our own projections of who that person is. I dunno. I don't like that feeling.

Thanks bro that makes sense. I wouldn't say I hate the feeling it just seems to soon ya know. I don't want the other person to think of me as some stalker

Exactly. The secret is, many women will never realise the emotional energy it takes to be attentive, caring and positive. There's a real danger of being too invested. Or, even worse, the guy she uses to fill in the whole her boyfriend or soon-to-be-boyfriend is lacking. The best thing to do is appreciate what you have now and enjoy life. Do other things. Draw, study, whatever. Channel that energy somewhere else.

^agree with jas 1st post. I started talking to a girl on here not all that long ago and almost totally fucked things up with her recently, almost had a panic attack over it. I get too emotional sometimes. But I tend to internalize my emotions most of the time. By which I mean that I don't throw external (physical) fits or anything but I pull all that emotion into me and it can sometimes make me feel physically sick. It's rare that I get that bad because I'm usually pretty laid back, but if I do it's always over a girl and sometimes my fault and sometimes not.

Yeah once, Though she hasn't talked to me in the last few days either. Probably mostly because of school, But eh *Shrug*. Either way nothing I can do about, So stress about, I mean sure I feel a bit bad about it, But I got more things to do then to waste energy on something that could possibly not even matter. Just find a way to use that energy some where else, Like reading books, Exercise(These are things I do but you could also write, draw ect ect)

I do get attached quite quickly. But I keep it to myself for the most part. Unless that person gets attached as well, then I may express my feelings, but then realize it was my own desperation, and I tend to pull back and try to start over. Sometimes it works, sometimes, it don't.