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Do you get depressed when you see other couples?

kc_watz
Too bad you're not a pedo?.. I dunno, but I can't seem to find a gal that's NOT a sterotypical popular girl. Soo boring Kc needs some tough love ya know? Lol
yunoxyukki
yep yep kc we all need it tough love=hapy kc and naito
rainx
Sure there's a bit of "why can't I find that?" When you see other couples. Just depends on how you deal with it.
yunoxyukki
i feel the same way cecil
xueli
I'm pretty apathetic about it. It's just meh :p But then I don't care about being in a relationship so I suppose that'd account for it
gtorocks
What I saw the couples, I feel envy and also upset that I had the same experience. I feel sad for them if they break up.
arc
Holy crap this thread took off. Nope, I don't get upset anymore. I've felt depressed about it for so long I've reached acceptance.
metaljester
Hmm I have a answer, when I see other couples I feel a bit sad and hopeful at the same time why you ask? When I see a couple enjoying each others company I also look back at the odds against a relationship lasting a entire lifetime. Not to say that life lasting relationships are necessarily what is a good relationship afterall thats more about perspective and to be honest its a well planted perception in pretty much any place now and days that relationships should last long and prosper rather then fall apart over time. This makes me sad though , what makes me hopeful is out of pure probability they manage to form the right things needed to maintain it and I can only hope the ones I see somehow stay together in that regards. There have been studies out there that show people who maintain longer lasting relationships do have differences over those that dont and not your typical differences. Those who seem to possess said long lasting relationships have more activity in their ventral tegmental area of the mind. Just to state that this is a pattern in people who do have these relationships. So all in all I am left with this should we as people look to have relationships that last for the rest of our life. Or should we go into relationships expecting a short burst then eventually it fading back down. Then we begin the cycle all over again. At least for those who commonly cannot maintain one. This is a view though a edgy one and perhaps a jaded one but at the very least its worth noting and seeing others viewpoints on the matter.
gtorocks
Yu, I don't think people should look for relationship in a short burst just to get by the day. Love relationship should be long lasting and eternal that need a commitment. I hate people who seek relationship as an amusement just for fun. Although I'm atheist, one of the point that I agree. A relationship should not happen when you know you do not love that person. In the Bible, mention that we should not toy with feeling if you planning to play with it. This my rephrase, I know is not good. Maybe I need to find the text but not to toy with feelings. This is why people should not start a relationship if they know are not eternal. Similar to, don't have sex if you don't plan to take responsible. I don't agree about the difference that possess will create long lasting relationship.
koro_kizama
Brah, im not gonna lie but I get jealous from seeing other otaku females getting mistreated or going though ordeals, and then I think to myself *why is it most the time I catch attention for that one, if that was me I would treat her so much better xD*
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