Dating Advice for Young Teens?

>_< // well I am a wittle 15 year old black girl who, thinks asians are soo cute~ but when i see some im WAY too afraid to confront them and say high and most of the time they are probably way older than me :/ advice?

lol I saw your picture in that matchup thing on this site but I wasn't sure if you were the black one or the asian one. xD My advice is that since you are still young, get to know people as friends first so even if they turn out to be too old, at least you still made a new friend. You'll find someone around your age eventually, sometimes it takes time but in the meantime you can make a lot of new friends! For the record though, I personally am almost twice your age xD

if i could change anything about highschool i wouldnt have wasted time dating people! live your school years to the fullest and worry about that stuff later, itll happen itll just take time! I wouldnt rush it

how bout not sound too racist and not be so narrow minded? It sounds like you like asians cause of strictly their race & nothing else of importance. How bout giving anyone who is respectful, mature and makes you happy a chance instead of just that yellow fever you have.

Wanting to date someone based on their looks is normal. And since race has a lot to do with looks that's fine. Just don't associate their race automatically with their stereotypical culture, people are a lot more broad than that. Also, there's that different feeling when you're in love as opposed to simply liking someone. It's like everything falls into place, every action you make feels like someone else was calling the shots for you and they're a master at it. You worry endlessly about what they think of you and your emotions can't be fought back to give you a sense of self control again. When that happens give up on acting casual. Talk to them, ask them out to a movie or a meal, tell them you wanna go out with them. Don't phrase it with an "I think" or anything halfhearted, tell them what you "want". Highschool is a great time to experiment with love and dating because if something doesn't go right then at least you won't have to move out of their place or something awkward like that. And after you graduate you don't ever have to deal with them again if you don't want to. Oh, and no drinking parties. Can't tell you how many of those I went to that were ultimately just for hooking up. Too many of my friends ended up teen parents cuz of that. As far as your age concerns, I'm not really one to speak. I tend to have better luck with older women.

I think you should have fun. I mean high school is one of those times where you don't have any incredibly huge responsibilities other than to be a good student. I think you should be careful, but at the same time, this is when you learn more about what you'd like out of a relationship and what you bring to a relationship you know? Basically I agree with @Erranty hahaha.

Hmm, my advice would be don't.. Ahah. Dating when you're in your early teens isn't a really good idea. The people you know are pretty much mostly people from your high school. Everyone is young and no one really know where they're going after high school. A lot of times people break up because people go off to different colleges, stress during college is too much, etc. It's just a lot for someone so young to deal with as well. Most of what I wanted to say has been said by Erranty, so I don't have much else to add.. lol Although about the Asian bit--yes, Asians are cute, but so are every other race y'know? Make sure to give other people a chance too. There's a ton of amazing people out there, and not all of them will be Asian. Best of luck~

On the topic of dating in high school. There are different issues for guys vs girls. But as a guy, one of my biggest regrets is not having more uhhh... "fun" in high school. When the girls I knew hit around 14, all they wanted to do was (well you can guess!) But I was too shy to do anything, but I could have had so much fun! It was my last chance to enjoy girls that young and cute. But I never had a gf till I was 19 and I didn't have sex till I was 21. As a girl though, you want to absolutely avoid getting pregnant and most guys are too horny to care. So it's best to not be in a hurry and give yourself time before you get too serious with a guy.