Is it worth it?

Oh wow, the last girl I went to go see I drove over 9 hours, like the others said, if he isn't visiting atleast every 2 weeks being only an hour away then it's probably not going to last. Unless of course he is visiting frequently and you two are still having those issues, then I'm not really sure. =( You two should plan some outings, go to the movies, hiking, swimming, do some stuff that could help strengthen the relationship. =)

I have never had a long distance relationship work out. Mostly due to financial reasons as neither of us could afford to visit as often as we wanted. As for an hour, yeah, that isn't long distance, that is like a commute to work. Hell, I had to drive an hour and a half each way to work for three years. Communication is key and if you guys don't communicate, nothing is going to fix things.

try your best to work it out. if you do your part to try and fix it and he doesnt; leave. atleast you can say you tried.

Another thought is how often do you visit him? I know you say he is falling down in the skype area and stuff, which sucks, but you mention he still comes and visits, but you don't mention visiting him.

I don't have a car right now, if it was in my ability then I'd be over there whenever I could, it doesn't really matter since we've stopped seeing each other anyways. Too much stress than being happy. It would have been one thing if he had shown me something that his feelings were real by taking some action and doing something that normal couples do daily even if they aren't LDR, but being ignored and hardly talked wasn't working even after talking about it multiple times, I just think it was best to stop before getting deeper. I'm actually a little relieved. Relationships are work, if they aren't great, that means even more work and I have too much to focus on than fixing my love life.

True, relationships are work, all of that lowering of the basket and raising it. On the plus side, digging the pit is only a one time deal.