I feel insulted...

Well, to start off; this happened July 3rd, so not long ago. A user from this site (Whom I will not name, for their own privacy) and I were chatting, and we took it to Skype. Not very long after voice chatting, they mentioned "expecting" me to look like my anime avatar -- Rori-hime if I ever "visited Canada" (I never mentioned going to Canada, but whatever.) So I asked, "Why??" they then mentioned that they had no idea what I looked like in person. (in spite of my RL image in my gallery.) So I shared a photo of myself so that they wouldn't get the wrong idea of me looking like an anime avatar. Nothing wrong with that, right? Well, after that, they made very VERY brief responses before telling me they had class tomorrow, and wished a goodnight. I said goodnight and then... They deleted me. From everything. Skype, and Mai Otaku. Tried asking them about it, but apparently they've got me blocked via skype. So, what do you guys think; was it something I did/said? Maybe I should have let them think I was an anime character in real-life? (lol.) I'm in need of closure! People just don't delete people without a reason. ( ´͈ ⌓ `͈ )

Some people do delete people without reason, but that's usually not the case. Regardless of the case, they seem to be a very rude person, and perhaps even delusional from what you said... Lol. People suddenly deleting me without saying why, annoys me too. But if I were you, I'd just move on and forget it. You'll meet nicer people here who'll want to talk to you. ^_^

I suppose. It really is super annoying, though. I blamed myself before blaming them for anything, even though I didn't really.. do anything to promote deletion. At elast, I don't think so. Maybe my face and hello kitty stuff offended them. xD

Maybe they were just afraid of you tripping over them because of how much of a klutz you are. :3 But eh, what do I know, I'm just some gigantic kawaii desu eyed freak who finally decided to log back on MO this morning after being gone for two months. xD

Ha! More reason for me to be glad that I never took this site serious. People are ass holes and said "guy" was infatuated with a fantasy, but reality didn't fit what he imagined. Don't take what I'm saying here as scoffing you, it's more for idiots like that guy. It's pretty clear to me that he wasn't man enough to at least say it won't work out beyond a friendship and instead was a bit shallow and brash. It is what it is though and unfortunately there's not much you can do other than to learn from the situation. It may not be of much consolation, but I'll gladly be you friend if you'd like.:)

People are shallow. Hell, sometimes I'm shallow. Some people are on this site only to try to fulfill their fantasy, rather than looking for a real person or relationship. I wouldn't let it get to me too much. Just realize that no matter how big of an ass someone is to you, there will always be someone worse coming along eventually.

Oh. I was starting to feel uplifted and now I'm second guessing everything after that last part LOL. I'd better prepare myself! D: I mean, this isn't the first time someone's been mean but. It's.. the first time I experienced it in a community I least expected it from. Mom always said there's an asshole everywhere. I wouldn't consider this person an "asshole" just.. misguided. Then again, I try to be nice as possible even when scorned. :i I'm sure if worse happens, I'll (hopefully) be able to deal with it better thanks to all of you! <3

Wow that was really rude of them.. Yeah I also dislike when people expect you to look like an anime avatar that your using. It's ridiculous. It may be better to use just a real picture if it causes less problems but don't let this discourage you from using an anime avatar. But yeah some people are just very rude. I don't think he was misguided I think he was an asshat. LOL. Because he technically did the hole ' Oh hey I'm interested in you ( Because I bet she looks like a loli like her avatar! ) And then Oh..( This isn't what I expected :I Not interested -Deletes- ) THAT. Is technically what he did so he is an asshole. People need to stop expecting us otakus are going to look perfect and like anime characters..There may be a certain amount of girls or guys that like anime that are in perfect shape both physically and in beauty wise ( Like the ones that cosplay and astonish us ) but the other, BIGGER Majority of us are normal people who are geeky and have our body flaws and beauty flaws..And that is totally normal. It's like alot of people expect to get the crème de la crème as a girlfriend or boyfriend and I see this equally with girls and guys but mostly with guys..no offense dudes. I had someone I was interested in here on Mai Otaku and when I asked him about dating stuff he said that he wasn't going to consider dating anyone unless they are or look like they could pull Tifa from FF7 off perfectly. And I was like excuse me WTF? :/ Sigh some people and I see this alot in our generation have these huuuuuge blown up expectations for others when they dont even fill the expectation they are expecting from someone. I find it very immature and it's just hard to deal with people like that in the relationship community. It isn't all about looks boys and girls!! Yeah I'm really sorry that you had to go threw that Rori..Your very cute and you deserve better. But please don't let that discourage you I'm sure next time things will go more better! ^^ -Nudges Shin- :3 Shin here is a really nice guy, hes kinda selfless but that just means hes a sweetheart! Maybe you could give him a try.. LOL <3 Also I had a friend of mine I knew in reality that use to tell me she wouldn't settle down for anyone unless they looked like SEBASTIAN from Kuroshitsuji. And I remember she'd go crazy looking for someone who looked like Sebastian and I knew her username she would always use and she had COUNTLESS dating profiles and you could see she'd only go after guys who were emo or looked like Sebby and one day she found someone who looked JUST like him but he didn't know anytihng about anime or what not. And they started dating and he liked her for her and she always said she liked him for him and this guy had just gone threw some serious emotional problems because of his great looks and for once he wanted someone to like him for him and not his handsome looks and so he thought that this girl was gunna be the one and they got pretty far into the relationship like a year and they were gunna meet up in reality but one of the girl's friends was extreamly jealous of her ( because she was a sebsatian fan too ) and my friend's crazy friend knew everything about her and She contacted the guy and exposed her secret that she only went with him at first because he looked like an anime character and it broke his heart and he dumped her the next day and shit went downwards for them both and my friend now hates Sebastian and now likes some other anime dood and she like hates dating and stuff and now always called her boyfriend or husbando some naked dakimura pillow of an anime guy..LOL...It's not laughing wise funny its actually sad. And that guy he shaved his hair bald and got alot of piercings and became technically gay. Because of what happened. And yeah..I'm not really good friends with her anymore but everynow and then we talk about like the new otome games or otome animes they come out with. And she says why deal with real people when you can have perfect virtual guys and I feel pretty bad for her because that is how she feels now about dating.

@Cat Trying to hook me up with a beautiful girl as soon as I come back to MaiOtaku, Stella? Shame on you. LOL! <3 By the way, do you EVER use your Skype at all? I never see you log on it. O_o And nice to see a familiar face such as yours, same goes for asshat, I missed you guys! @Rori-Himi I wouldn't mind getting to know you if you wanna talk. ^_^ You seem really nice and I'm always in the mood to make new friends. Oo