Ex Drama/ Get rid of Ex

Ever have that one ex that continues to open his or her mouth about the two of you when your literally OVER!!! It's like, We are done and you continue to spread rumors and try to create a all out war when it was done two months ago. I don't get it. I blocked her on FB, Got rid of anyone that talked to her, Sheesh idk what else. Being bipolar now it's really hard to not say something yet being the better person is kicking in. THANK the supernatural for meditation.

Hmm I feel when it comes to that is to stand up to what the person is saying. Even if it is personal stuff deny what is false and accept what is true. In this matter if the person keeps attacking you then people will start seeing that person as nothing more then somebody with hate towards you hopefully ignoring that person. This would not be the case all the time but it should help quite a bit.

I have a friend (platonic) like that. She thinks that now that we are no longer friends, (I am however civil and have her on FB still) that it is okay to talk to my friends about things that aren't true. When she does this, however, my friends will tell her to stop and they are not interested. I'm beginning to wonder if she is that pathetic, or if she just wants to cause friction with me and start a fight. I found it necessary to say "Hello. We're adults, we're not teenagers so stop talking about things to my friends that they don't even want to know. They're civil and they won't completely shun you, but they know me better than they know you, so what you're doing is just making yourself look bad. Stop trying to start a fight cause it's not going to work. Just move on." I think your friend is bothering you because she feels like she has unfinished business and wants attention. Just tell her straight up that it's over, it's time to move on, and you've already moved on.