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Thoughts on having children one day?

sassyspark
I'm kind of scared of having kids due to my family and plus giving birth is such a messy process D: Like that takes a few years off a women's body. I think I would want to adopt two kids and raise them. One boy named Halo and one girl named Soul :3
leonxd
Not any time soon but definitely. I gonna be the cool dad ^_^ hahaha.
vampire_neko
They are noisy, smelly and expensive but apparently most women have a biological need to have a parasitical organism suck the life out of them for 9 months before ripping it's way out of their womb....and often want to do it again because it's so darned fun. So I guess it's likely I have to deal with that in exchange for a long term relationship from most women.
amrodcalanor
Always thought of adopting
namaniiamani
Idk, That is a trick question for me and what i mean is i don't want to find out when i pass that my offspring are psychopaths because of the way society has screwed them up. Them becoming three dimensional killers because people made them outcasts their whole lives and constantly being peer pressured is no walk in the park either. What's gonna happen when their not minors anymore and are 18 years old, Can't tell them very much what to do anymore unless your a strict parent. What can you morally do for the sake of your children's future, I guess stay connected with your children's lives so they won't have to seek elsewhere but soon soon at the cost of being independent one day anyway. It's almost like being the teacher except you want better instead of hoping for the better for kids.
supernovagirl08
i definitly want kids but it has to be with the right person... i want my kiddo to grow up in a loving home with both parents. i wouldnt mind doing it on my own but i would feel like im cheating them out of somthing special (though there are MANY SITUATIONS that its for the better and i say go for it if its a need) i wouldnt mind adopting eventually but that would really depend on the finances ^_^
kyetge
I'd like to adopt a kid after saving up a lot of money if I end up being infertile or something. I don't want my way of life to go out like a light.
fudozen
I've always said that I'd more than likely adopt a child. Not that I'm against having my own kid or anything lol.
kitsunekouta
I think it'd be great actually. In my younger years, primarily between the ages of 7 and 13, I actually had a major role in raising my younger siblings due to the parenting situation. Changing diapers, making food, preparing bottles, making them do chores, all that good stuff. It was a bit of work, but it really made me very close knit with my siblings. I'd do it again, but of course I wouldn't want a ton of kids or anything. That would be terrible. To me one of each gender would be ideal, since you get the full experience that way. On the other hand, if I were with someone that didn't want kids, I'd probably be just as fine not having them since I already feel that I know what it's like.
arazno
I want to have someday my own children together with my One and Only. And I would like to have as many as possible as long I can each of them a Wonderfull youth they don't have to miss as less as possible.
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