On Oral

But, if the other person simply does not like to perform oral and you do , is it right to demand that they reciprocate when you know they are uncomfortable with it? Can you say that if you think they should that you truly enjoy pleasing them for the fact of pleasing them or would it be because of stipulations? In other words, are you a selfless lover or just in it to satisfy yourself? I understand if the other person is simply being lazy, but as I said, if they really do not enjoy performing oral then you have no right to think that they owe it to you just because you did it for them. It should never be a tit for tat kind of thing.

I agree with yaasshat. I prefer giving, not that I've ever been given anything but it isn't my thing :/ I don't expect anyone to give me anything, and when they ask I always say no or it's up to them if they really want to try it but I hate the idea of having someone down there. makes me cringe.

I would think a fair bit of trust should be mandatory here. I mean, you've got 32 flesh ripping teeth in proximity to or encasing what are some of the most sensitive and highly valued organs of the human body. But to me it just seems to be a sign of affection. I've heard it described as gross, and admittedly it does involve or is in proximity to areas that are known for producing less than desirable materials and smells, but after a shower why not? I kind of understand the rationality behind expecting reciprocation. Not wanting to could be misconstrued as unequal feelings for each other, whether or not that's the reality. But as with anything, it's only meaningful and worthwhile if it's something they actually want to do. Even if nothing else, I'd be afraid to pressure someone for fear of those 32 chompers >.>

i love giving and receiving@ to either gender! im also a pervert haha but yeah once you get over how weird it is its enjoyable. i actually like giving more!