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Uptight guy?

xcution
Jan 29, 14 at 11:18am
What do you feel about a guy who's uptight? Would you consider dating him? Does he need to change?
xueli
xueli @xueli commented on Uptight guy?
Jan 29, 14 at 4:18pm
Like... how uptight? And uptight in what way(s)?
xcution
Jan 31, 14 at 7:59am
Yeah, my bad. I should've been more specific from the start. I wasn't exactly normal when I started that topic and didn't think it through, exactly. Sorry for that, I'll try to clarify. I think it's pretty clear that I was talking about myself. I haven't exactly had the most luck with people lately. The people whom I used to know are less active in my life. I've been told I've become more uptight and unmoving than I used to be and it's just gotten to the point that almost everyone chooses to ignore rather than actually confront me over it. Among the traits of this uptight nature include: 1. Excessive sarcasm 2. Stubbornness 3. A condescending attitude 4. Raging and harsh language Apparently, I'm less relatable as well, such that I can't express myself or really understand others. Not that I was ever great at giving advice, I did try when the situation called for it. I don't particularly know when this came about, but I'd guess it was early December to early January, around the time of my graduation from college and the beginning of my job search, which has been less than successful. I've never been good at expressing myself. Hopefully, this helps a little though in terms of understanding.
alexislynn
Feb 03, 14 at 10:15pm
I couldn't date someone with a condescending attitude. If I'm in a relationship, I have to feel like an equal, not an inferior. The other things could probably be dealt with, though you'd have to learn to tone them all down a bit.
zero_onimatsu
Actually that sounds exactly like me well there might be some difference but I have bout the same problem I know your pain it's rough I'm a christian so that helps
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