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arnie92
So I read a psych-survey that stated most females reject most guys 93% of the time. It then continued to report that though ask females want a "good" guy, they're most likely to turn them down before they do a "bad" boy. 1st question: is this accurate? 2ndly: if so, what's the point of talking to them in the first place?
lala_chan13
Well, I'm not sure if that's exactly true. You would have to consider what females they were surveying.
thatuke
Dec 30, 13 at 6:57pm
It may be true to a point BUT every girl is different and shouldn't be pooled into statistics. "Bad" boys usually offer more of a rush which some like. "Good" boys are more satisfying overall to be with in my opinion though. So I would say there is point in talking to them.
xueli
Dec 30, 13 at 8:29pm
I would be more leery of how the survey was conducted when it's that much of a majority with that kind of vague terms like "good" guy/ "bad" guy
tthedragon
Jan 01, 14 at 8:30pm
Lemme say this. "Bad" guys, or wateverthafack, have arrogance. Confidence is within Arrogance. From my experiences, a good number of females find arrogance attractive. They would like to find what's on the other side of that arrogance and what they inevitably find 98% the time is...dirt. I have to be honest. Males my age but more younger tend to be kind of..flat towards the dating scheme. Some guys are able to just *get* things, without learning how to earn and appreciate fully. You could say I fall into the "good" guy territory, because I tend to be more friendly and respectful and playful toward females. I mean, I was raised up that way because I grew up in a family of mostly females. Other guys tell me, "HEY RYAN. MAN UP AND HAVE CONFIDENCE. YOU JUST GOTTA DO THIS AND THIS" Teasing is also a factor, but I have a hard time teasing others. I talk to everybody; all kinds of cliques. I'm in my senior year in high school, and I've always known this, but it's now settled that I realize that people can be uncomfortable towards someone friendly. ~T
tthedragon
Jan 01, 14 at 8:31pm
Continuing on that, I know girls can be put off by me cause sometimes I just want a strictly platonic relationship with them and nothing more. Feh. I understand and don't understand females at the same time, it's irritating. ~T
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