Is it just me

Thank you Xueli. it may have been harsh but it is the truth and that is what im looking for, thank you. Alexis thank you for that and i hope you and your partner stay happy.

You seem to have zero pictures showing what you actually look like, I am a little curious as to how anyone can reject you based on looks on a website such as this. On that subject I would like to see more people (that are not minors) use a real, unaltered, picture of themselves in their profile. I think it makes us more personable, and less of just an alias.

Based on the few pics you have on your profile, you don't strike me as ugly or anything for a guy. As Xueli said, it might be more your demeanor, attitude, sociability, etc. that might be playing a role in your problems of finding a relationship.

Groom yourself up and buy some new cool clothes, that will raise your confidence. (Honestly, it's whether the other person thinks you're attractive or not, looks and the first time you talk to him/her will be the first and most important impression that you really shouldn't screw up.) (Not saying you aren't groomed up etc, but if you want to generally feel fresh new clothes does the job on top of grooming and a haircut).

Yeah @dream im getting a new haircut and getting my hairdyed soon too. @bookwatcher yeah honestly i dont know what else it is @Alexis thank you agian