Scared to open up to love becuase of Emotional Issues

Anyone else have emotional problems,bu afraid to learn to love a person because of it,but it's something you can't help?

I'm scared as well, but I don't show it and I don't freak out over things. It's hard for me to trust someone though...because I've been through a lot. Just too much and it scares me because I don't want to waste anymore time. But I'm trying to learn for myself that in case things don't work out, I should just keep waiting for the right person to come along. I want to be open and honest towards someone better instead of bottling my feelings because that's a flaw of mine. I can be clingy, but I control it and try to wait patiently. I give guys space too and try to be a great girlfriend. But I always get left alone in the end...but no matter what, I don't want to be a bad person..But I'm also scared that I'll be always the one giving the effort. I want efforts to be even.

Awwwwww reading this makes me a sad panda :( Leap of faiths!

Pssshh You guys need to relax and chill, you'll find the right person eventually. Just need to be prepared to wade through alot of crappy relationships till you find one thats worth it.

@ExHeroKid ;w; I'm sorry. Ahhh!

@Jean It's hard relax to when you've been through a lot. But at least I can hide my pains and take control of it instead of telling someone all my worries and being too insecure. But I also find it easier to have a sense of feeling when there's something wrong when I had all those experiences. After my last experience, it made me realize I need to be open and more honest about how I feel. I wouldn't attack the guy or pour my emotions on him. I want the next guy to understand that I've been through a lot and I'm not playing around. I take things seriously. TL;DR Overall: I need trust to be build between me and the next guy, whoever that is. My problem is I trust way too easily because I'm really kindhearted and caring.

^its okay as long as you keep trying :) I kind of agree with the other two but you as well. Its all about equivalent exchange people! Cannot gain something without first giving something in return whether it be pain for experience for a good relationship later. All you can do is try try again more FMA quotes "Keep on walking, at least you have two good legs to carry you there" or something like that xd

Awh everyone eventually will find that person. It's all about whether they hold onto them or let them slip away. Me growing up pretty much makes me a closed person. When I someone close, I usually subconsciously push them away. I've got better at not doing it. Though instincts and old habits are hard to break.