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kawaiidango
Well so there is this guy right~ Everyone says we'd make a great couples, trying to get one of us to "confess" stuff like that~ I like the guy and all but im not sure if likes me back! He lets me borrow his hat, gives me his hoodie to wear you know normal stuff like that! He even let me borrow his new video game and let me hold his Lacrosse Stick which he'd never dream of letting someone else hold it! I dont mean touch hold I mean like borrow hold. BUT ANYWAYS!!! What really got me thinking was what happened at anime club yesterday, so It starts of normally you know we draw work on our storyboard stuff like that. And he just walks over to me and kneels down and buries his head in my lap and he stays like that for about 20 minutes refusing to move~ he also sat on my lap for about 10 minutes before I made him get up (he wasn't heavy he's actually really skinny I just felt it was backwards...) He gives me a very long hug which he usually does not do since he doesnt hug people! But ANYWAYS!!! He let me sit on his lap and we shared a soda and he called me cute blah blah blah And when my friend asked if he liked me he says no because Im heartless and mean =_= I know be ause I was there when she asked! Anytime anyone asks anything about liking me he denies everything! WHAT DOTH I DO?! WHAT DOES IT MEAAAAN?! Am I being paranoid? It probably means nothing right TTATT
animeboy
The only advice I can give you, is to ask him how he feels about you. That's the only way to know for sure. If he rejects you, then it's not the end of the world. It'll hurt, but then you'll heal and become a stronger person,but if he feels the same way about you, then well become his GF. You'll never know until you dive out there and see, or else you'll live your life in regret, saying "what if I asked him how he felt" So go for it, what have you got to lose?
prismmiracle
I know that feeling... I honestly think he's a bit confused on how he feels about you and what he really wants. I can relate to this because I had a recent problem like this. But I think you should push him away now and see how he reacts. You don't do that to "friends". If he really likes you, he needs to chase you. Try to avoid him a little bit now and see how he reacts. If he gives up too easily, then he's not worth it or he was just playing with you. I say that because I find it suspicious what he says about you. I know about those suspicions. I had a guy who so called "liked" me and he would tell me he likes me all the time and I liked him, but my friend asked him if he'll ask me out, but he said "don't worry about it". Then he ended up saying to me that we should remain friends and that this was "fun". ._. So be really careful. Don't sway so easily for this boy because you'll get hurt like I did. I hope this helps.
prismmiracle
^I agree. Being young has to do with this. I feel like you shouldn't get yourself to be led on by someone. I think you should simply say that to him if the next time he tries something with you. Say you're not comfortable if it's bothering you so much. It's good to be honest and that you don't want to be played around with.
kawaiidango
He struck again today at video game club ^^" Not only did he rest his head on my lap! I sat on his lap, He picked me up 3 times, He gave me a piggy back ride, He put his arms around my waist and just...held me! Then AFTER that we walked out together with his arm around me...Not tha i mond or anything~But thanks for the input! ^^
kawaiidango
But literally whenever he saw me he'd just like hold me or pick me up or hug me or something like that for the whole time I was there! >w<
momoichi
Nov 07, 13 at 8:24pm
well from what I say I can conclude two things u like him a lot hehe ^w^! and it already sounds like ur dating honestly xD I don't see any mixed signals, seems to be all lovey dovey~ ^o^!
ooreikaoo
Nov 08, 13 at 7:27pm
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