OtakuTan

Well, personally for me...sex is very important and shouldn't ever be done outside of marriage. I view sex as a sacred thing...being in five different relationships and not even kissing before...I believe that getting really intimate with people in that sort of way should only be done with that one special other. Not saying that you can't get intimate with people, just not sexually like that. Or at least that's my opinion.

Well, race really shouldn't be a factor in anything. I'm Asian and I've rebelled against my parents by dating Mexicans and Caucasians, lol. But, I must say...on the last part of your post about appearances...I'm sure you would be the same as well, if you had one good looking guy with one not so good looking guy with the same personalities that you liked...you'd go for the good looking one cause well, good looking is a plus. Now, it's different to say that the good looking one had a horrible personality but the not so good looking one had the personality that you want in a potential other. Cause if that's the case, honestly, very few would go for the good looking one. Having someone that's good looking and your kind of personality is definitely a plus. When both have the same personality, of course the next option would be..."Who looks better?" Just saying, my opinion, that's all =)