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Yaay avatar fan!

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Hi there, the site thinks we'd get along. how are you?

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I like you pic
Self Improvement

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I think the answer is authenticity from both parties: When a partner wants me to change something, I look into myself and ask, is this a change that I want? If I agree with them, I will change, not for them, but because it makes me a better person and they helped me or challenged me to grow. If I want a partner to change something, then they look inside and ask if that change is true to their beliefs and values. If it's something I consider part of my identity and don't want to change it, then I won't. Same for them. The base line is if I can't make myself happy, I'm in no business making others happy. No one wants to live a lie. The stuff we won't change the other either learns to accept or we lose resonance and part ways and move on being happy ourselves.
Friend Requests

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Friend Requests
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Hmm. I like your approach, animekid.