essie2000

Not really. If someone starts distancing themselves from you, they weren't worth keeping around to begin with. What's more complicated is deducing whether they're distancing themselves for no reason, an illogical reason, or because how you act or are to them isn't desirable or something such a person wants to be around. If it's because of the first 2, they aren't worth such worry, stress, or regret, and hell, such people leaving should be more welcomed than despaired. If it's the 4th, it can be used as to think whether their belief of you that drove them away was true and from a problem with yourself that you can identify and possibly work on in the future or just their own insecurity in disguise, depending on how close they were to you. Either way, self-reflection needs to be done. Cause if you were to start playing the victim role and blame others for this and that, it'll lead to cynicism, self-pity, making your own obstacles, and a helluva lot of stress that can be avoided through acceptance, not pointing fingers, and firmly deciding whether you're okay with such a person distancing themselves or if to let them leave without any regrets. Stressing over who continues and doesn't continue to talk to you (especially on this site) is ridiculous unless its with someone you've become very close or good friends with in the long-term, rather than someone you've only known 5-6 months that already says your besties due to how much you talk.