Hello and welcome to anyone who happens to wander here.
Here is a not so short summary to start with. To get to know me and find some common ground for interaction.
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About Me:
In terms of personality, I'm a calm and a very introverted person. Not a pushover, just a regular guy who likes stay out of the spotlight and respect others.
A home hermit in my free time. I don't mind interacting with people but I prefer being alone or with someone one to one.
Also based on shared MBTI-tests in this website I have learned that I seem to be a INFJ-A.
With hobbies:
I have watched so many anime series that I can't even remember all of them to count. My bookshelf is full of manga/novels and a few figures.
I generally play rpg's like Baldurs Gate 3, Clair Obscure, Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Persona 4 Golden, Final Fantasy X-XII, the Trails and Tales series. Some of these are waiting their turn due to the lack of time. Also have been playing Final Fantasy XIV for the past 5-6 years.
Lack motivation for exercising but I do occasionally go for a walk during spring to fall period of the year to enjoy nature and just fresh air.
Outside of anime/manga/games:
- I like space related stuff, stories and illustrations. Have put my name on the NASA lists for certain space launches like the Parker Solar Probe, Mars Insight and Mars 2020 missions.
- Nature and animal themed stuff.
- Fantasy stories like R.A. Salvatores books with Drizzt, The Sword of Shannara trilogy by Terry Brooks, Dragonlance books by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman and Tales of the Otori by Lian Hearn are some that I have read at some point.
- Personality tests, psychology and some deep human behaviour related stuff are very interesting to me too. I don't read constantly about these but I do find myself listening/watching podcasts and commentaries about human behaviour and social trends. Mainly doing stuff like this to understand other viewpoints or just to get some grounded thinking from others.
So yeah, hope that helps to find some things to talk about.
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About why I'm here:
Currently I'm looking for some people to chat with (mainly my age or close to it). Will not accept friend requests from under 30 as the age and/or behaviour/cultural gap seems to be quite significant at that point. But if you still want to chat with me then put something in my wall to make yourself seen. Will deny the blind requests.
Also why I'm here is to possibly find that someone special in my life to enjoy this hobby/lifestyle. To fill those quiet and lonely days/nights outside of work. To find some extra meaning to life by sharing it with someone else.
Most have something that we might not be so open about and worry a bit when interracting with others. With me you can be open and chat whatever you want. I'm happy when people are themselves and talk about what they like. I may not have much to discuss with certain topics but I will respect your interests and hobbies.
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Person whom I might be interested in?:
Someone who is truly ok with what I have said about myself. To the degree that it does not bother you even if you don't share the same hobbies. To let the other person be free of what they want to do.
You can have any kinds of interests, hobbies or tendensies if you can accept me the way I am and that you respect others the way they are.
I view kindness, loyalty, respect of others and fairness important and would like it if you had similar views. No need to be a saint as no one is, just a normal nice person who is ok about others even if they differ from your points of views and lifestyles.
These things represent my ideals and morals. I view it important to be with someone who can line up with those in most ways. And one thing that I would prefer is a introverted personality.
Differences are fine and complimenting aspects are important if those exist but some common baseline needs to be there to have a stable direction of life with people. A lot of differences in behaviour or views will wear down the connection between people as those are core to us.
And as they say: do to others what you want them to do to you.
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Favorite series / genres:
Those can be found at my anime listing, but there are tons more that I have seen. Have been at this for 25 years now. I like stories, which is why I have watched so many.
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With regarding my status etc:
I will update it if something changes. Updated in May 2025.
So feel free to contact me and start to know me at your own pace.
I'm happy to get to know new people and talk/message even if I'm introverted at first with making contact.
I'm also always happy to lend a ear + my support/opinions if you want to talk about something.
If interrested then maybe say hi and lets be friends or possibly more. :)
Here is a not so short summary to start with. To get to know me and find some common ground for interaction.
---
About Me:
In terms of personality, I'm a calm and a very introverted person. Not a pushover, just a regular guy who likes stay out of the spotlight and respect others.
A home hermit in my free time. I don't mind interacting with people but I prefer being alone or with someone one to one.
Also based on shared MBTI-tests in this website I have learned that I seem to be a INFJ-A.
With hobbies:
I have watched so many anime series that I can't even remember all of them to count. My bookshelf is full of manga/novels and a few figures.
I generally play rpg's like Baldurs Gate 3, Clair Obscure, Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Persona 4 Golden, Final Fantasy X-XII, the Trails and Tales series. Some of these are waiting their turn due to the lack of time. Also have been playing Final Fantasy XIV for the past 5-6 years.
Lack motivation for exercising but I do occasionally go for a walk during spring to fall period of the year to enjoy nature and just fresh air.
Outside of anime/manga/games:
- I like space related stuff, stories and illustrations. Have put my name on the NASA lists for certain space launches like the Parker Solar Probe, Mars Insight and Mars 2020 missions.
- Nature and animal themed stuff.
- Fantasy stories like R.A. Salvatores books with Drizzt, The Sword of Shannara trilogy by Terry Brooks, Dragonlance books by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman and Tales of the Otori by Lian Hearn are some that I have read at some point.
- Personality tests, psychology and some deep human behaviour related stuff are very interesting to me too. I don't read constantly about these but I do find myself listening/watching podcasts and commentaries about human behaviour and social trends. Mainly doing stuff like this to understand other viewpoints or just to get some grounded thinking from others.
So yeah, hope that helps to find some things to talk about.
---
About why I'm here:
Currently I'm looking for some people to chat with (mainly my age or close to it). Will not accept friend requests from under 30 as the age and/or behaviour/cultural gap seems to be quite significant at that point. But if you still want to chat with me then put something in my wall to make yourself seen. Will deny the blind requests.
Also why I'm here is to possibly find that someone special in my life to enjoy this hobby/lifestyle. To fill those quiet and lonely days/nights outside of work. To find some extra meaning to life by sharing it with someone else.
Most have something that we might not be so open about and worry a bit when interracting with others. With me you can be open and chat whatever you want. I'm happy when people are themselves and talk about what they like. I may not have much to discuss with certain topics but I will respect your interests and hobbies.
---
Person whom I might be interested in?:
Someone who is truly ok with what I have said about myself. To the degree that it does not bother you even if you don't share the same hobbies. To let the other person be free of what they want to do.
You can have any kinds of interests, hobbies or tendensies if you can accept me the way I am and that you respect others the way they are.
I view kindness, loyalty, respect of others and fairness important and would like it if you had similar views. No need to be a saint as no one is, just a normal nice person who is ok about others even if they differ from your points of views and lifestyles.
These things represent my ideals and morals. I view it important to be with someone who can line up with those in most ways. And one thing that I would prefer is a introverted personality.
Differences are fine and complimenting aspects are important if those exist but some common baseline needs to be there to have a stable direction of life with people. A lot of differences in behaviour or views will wear down the connection between people as those are core to us.
And as they say: do to others what you want them to do to you.
---
Favorite series / genres:
Those can be found at my anime listing, but there are tons more that I have seen. Have been at this for 25 years now. I like stories, which is why I have watched so many.
---
With regarding my status etc:
I will update it if something changes. Updated in May 2025.
So feel free to contact me and start to know me at your own pace.
I'm happy to get to know new people and talk/message even if I'm introverted at first with making contact.
I'm also always happy to lend a ear + my support/opinions if you want to talk about something.
If interrested then maybe say hi and lets be friends or possibly more. :)
