I heard you like kpop and started a chat about it I like it too :3
Hello there. Saw you from the thread on wanting to be famous and just felt like saying hi
Sir Vido will have to practice relentlessly until a fine dame reciprocates his feelings!, in the end it's his prerogative of how much he tries and how much pain he can tolerate!
As Bruce Lee said: I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.
I wish I knew how to reply to posts like you just did, that way I wouldn't need to make multiple ones!.
I respect your opinion, I can see where you're coming from, there's wisdom on it, one problem I find with Sir Vido's plea though, is that he remarked he doesn't mind being a friend first but then, that women start talking to him about their crushes and men they wish to date, I think that's a very specific problem because they never picture him as dating material, either because there's no hints, no clues, no indications that he sees them as a potential partner so they stick with him as a friend.
Another key point of him taking too long to make a move is how he explains to be called a brother... The times I would get called that on highschool would be when I would be someone's friend for two years or so and we had a nice bond already.
It's a bit mysterious to a certain degree, we would need more details to help him, I don't think either of us is intrinsically wrong, we just have different approaches!
It caught my eye your post on Sir Vido's topic, "You gotta be their friend before their lover"
I think it is partially true, however, I think Sir Vido's problem is being their friend before stating that they are interested in being a lover someday... So then, he remains forever a friend.
I guess that's the jump between asking someone out on casual dates and being a semi-stranger Versus actual relationship after the two get to know each other!
Of course, this is just my conjecture
Hello let's be friends :)
hiya liz nice to meet someone from TN
Thanks for accepting my friend request. Glad to make your acquaintance...