doctorchurchie

Oh no please, there's no reason to apologize, it's all good. But no, Enki isn't a guy. She likes to mess with people, and she doesn't want the sleazy types hitting on her. I've actually made the mistake of letting myself get sucked into it once or twice too. But I learned my lesson, and I just bolt as soon as I sense things getting stupid haha It's fine, no reason to apologize. Jeez, we really are similar XD Sadly, that's just how INTJs are. Befriending one in the workplace is like pulling teeth for both sides haha. With INFJs, we can be a little difficult to approach in the work place, but we're not likely to get mad unless the person is a jerk or they're interrupting us constantly. But INTJs, they take their productivity REALLY seriously, and it can be a pretty big offense to them if you interrupt them with something like idle banter. Some are a little more chill than others, but some will seriously bite your head off for it. Actually kind of a funny thing, for women INTJ is actually the rarest, INFJ is just the rarest overall. And somehow, almost all of my female friends have been INTJ (and one ENFJ). Oh, I saw you like Pokemon. Are you into battling at all?

She's a lot more involved here than I am. Sometimes I tell her to take a step back because she may be absorbing too much toxic nonsense from the community lol I am too. Honestly, I find it helps to be told what I'm doing right every once in a while too. If I'm just constantly getting criticism and having my faults pointed out, my brain is going to go straight to "Man, am I really this worthless?" If I get to the point of no longer being able to answer "What's even the point of trying?", that's basically game over. I don't know her that well, and I know we're not friends. I want to become friends with her since she seems like a nice person. But she's so focused on work and never takes breaks, its hard to find a chance to talk to her. You know, I don't think I've ever spoken to another INFJ before. You seem like a very friendly and earnest person. I wonder if that's how people feel when they talk to me...

I'm the same way. I've met a few, some have wind up becoming good friends, others I just kinda lost interest in. The friend that suggested you was Enki. I dunno if you two have actually spoken, but she seems to be pretty observant of the community here. Yeah, that sounds par for the internets XD I hate greaseballs like that >.< I'm actually pretty emotional too. And one thing I've learned is that INFJs and INTJs deal with stress very, very differently. INTJs tend to give very cold, sometimes condescending advice, and to an INFJ we receive it in such a way that just makes the problem substantially worse. At least, that's how it is with me. Mind you not all INTJs are like that. And it is! I'm actually having a tough time with that with a INTJ girl at work right now. I want to be friends with her, but I have no clue what she's thinking, or if she even minds me talking to her >.<

So I was in town today and there was a life sized blub made of lego and I got a pokemon booster pack and I got a yvetal GX :D Also I'm sorry for last nightime >_<

omg, I'm the same way. I actually make an effort not to overextend myself socially because if I have too many friends it'll make me crazy. I like to have just a few friends I'm really close with. But almost all of my best friends are INTJs. The friend that recommended you to me is really sweet, but most of them are like robots. Us INFJs are emotional people, having only INTJ friends most of whom really don't have emotions can be hard XD

I actually used to write fanfics when I was a kid. Now a days, I have an adventure/sci-fi series I've been working on for a while. I'm hoping to have it published one way or another one day, but its hard to stay on top of that and deal with a career in IT at the same time... How do you like MO? Have you made many friends?