kitsune90 @kitsune90
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I get that it can be crazy overwhelming and tiring at the sametime to the point you want to give up, from what others keep telling me take the time you have being single to get to know yourself make peace with your doubts and fears and work to improve yourself as a person, and don't force/rush something things happen for a reason and in their own time and don't compare your life with others
aml50 @aml50 Thanks, I appreciate it! I'm trying to just be patient and do some introspection to understand where my anxieties come from. Some times I'm afraid though that I might be looping back in on myself with negativity, reinforcing my anxieties. I'm hoping that something will change or someone will come along to help me "break out" so to speak.
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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lol yea it's been a crazy week hopefully it'll calm down now, i am looking but not rushing with it, since i have low tolerance for the games and dishonesty. it's safe to assume that you are actively look?
aml50 @aml50 i'm more or less active, i mean i'm hoping to find someone sooner rather than later, but my depression, social anxiety, and disheartening after little to no contact online have made actually looking for and approaching women difficult to say the least
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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as far as free go i wouldn't recommend any of the ones I've tired, just because what people seem to want isn't something serious, nor did it look like a lot of people go on there
aml50 @aml50 that's also what I've noticed, also long time no see X) I guess I'll look at my options for pay site and make a decision at some point. so are you looking for anyone to date and if so, are more so actively or passively looking?
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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Well I've had a few experience with online dating so I know which sites to avoid for what reason
aml50 @aml50 Are there any sites you recommend, free or otherwise?
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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that is the question i wish i knew the answer to, i'm sure a lot of people would love the answer as well including myself lol ^^
aml50 @aml50 Hopefully online dating will pan out one of these days, that's about the only tactic I've been using for the last year. From personal experience, don't bother with Plenty of Fish or Kwink. PoF is a glorified sex solicitation service and Kwink has barely anyone on there. I'm broke so I haven't tried any of the pay sites yet, but I might pony up the money one of these days.
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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yea I understand, waiting around wondering where that special person will turn up gets annoying, but from what I've learned better to wait than to force something
aml50 @aml50 It's nice to hear someone reinforce my belief in patience, thanks. I just need to figure out the best may to make myself available so that special someone can find me or vise-versa.
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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I'm sorry i don't really have a lot of female friends here since i'm not from the area, even so i really don't like playing match maker.
aml50 @aml50 That's fine, I understand, my social circle isn't very large either. Better to ask and get a no, than not to ask at all, or so I've been told. I'm just tired of being patient with the world, you know?
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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I guess so they where more of learning experiences than anything else, really sucky ones but it's ok i understand
aml50 @aml50 Well, I guess any experience you learn from is a good experience. Hey, you wouldn't happen to know any single women that might be interested in me, would you?
kitsune90 @kitsune90
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it's ok I know not every guy is like that, but really made me change how I trust certain people, this happened about 8 years ago. and he wasn't even the worst guy I dated just the second biggest jerks, biggest one is the ex after him
aml50 @aml50 Is it true what they say, "better to have loved and lost"? I'll admit, on some small level, I don't sympathize because I'm jealous that you've had relationships at all. So I wonder which of us has had it worse in the romance department. Sorry, guess I'm just venting a little.
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It's a really long story to sum we had been best friends since high school during said time she would often test my loyalty having her bf flirt with me to see what I'd do than when I tell her what happened she'd say I passed. Well skip ahead to when I went to college long story short my ex had his mom break up with me, he calls me literally 2 days later and ask how'd I'd feel if he asked her out I told him I'd be upset, a few hours later she text me asking what she should do cause he asked her out. Long story short, they went out behind my back when I found out all she said was sorry. I didn't end their friendship over a guy but for the fact that she lied to me and betrayed my trust
aml50 @aml50 Jeez, it's for reasons like that I take absolutely no pride in being a guy. Not trans or anything, but I often feel like a piece of shit by association. Sorry that happened to you. I don't know what to think of your friend. How long ago was this?
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