I've heard people talking about not adding males to your friends list just because they have no male friends there. -I can't give you much advice, but I will say that some people dislike talking to guys, even if they are one themselves. Like me, I talk to girls most of the time. Talking to males isn't something I like doing, and it can hurt more than you may know. However I will say that, you should take caution when talking with others.

Good question, and honestly, I don't think I have an answer. Both are important. I myself tend to be more on the loyal side of the fence, but rarely stray too far from honesty. It's possible to find both in varying degrees, and the absence of one or the other is far less than desirable in a friend or a lover.