because im too sexy to explain this thread.lol oh and the ability to mock yourself is that a turn on or off,and family confidence the ability to be proud to show the girl off to his friends and family
@amezuki agreed but i think self confidence and humor go hand in hand to defeat arrogance im self confident but im not arrogant i realize when its too far hence making fun of myself i can easily say that im so ugly i crack mirrors daily but on the other hand im so hot i burn you by being in the same area code.and @katenoid ooh kinky lol and you may not know this cause its on another thread but loving punches and stuff is a turn on eg rough housing but not too far like s+m waking up with hands bound gag in mouth.haha 0.0
If you're not going to believe in yourself, then why should anybody else? That's the way I look at it. I like people similar to myself and Pride is by far my biggest sin. Thus, I find self-confidence very attractive, as long as a girl's not in my face with it. Ideally, I'd look for someone who's confidence and my own could feed off each other, rather than one eclipsing or crushing the other.
Arrogance, not so much.