girls what works for you?

ive seen a lot of forums covering these things the nice guys the bad guys,etc for example im a nice guy with an overdeveloped sense of humor (sometimes dark and goes too far) and a penchant for not giving a fuck especially when people try to walk all over me or take advantage,but im also a big believer in love and i treat people the way i like to be treated. so i ask what works for you and guys feel free to say what you are as well and what works for you.

I treat people the way I wish to be treated, but I also trust my intuition. If I see someone (male or female) walking towards me and my spidey senses say no, don't even speak to this person, I've learned to listen to it. My intuition is a good just of character. As far as looking for other guys? I mean, everyone likes an attractive guy, but what I find physically attractive is different from what other girls like. I could really care less about the body, most times I just like kind looking gentleman. Cute butts, long hair, and pretty eyes are always a plus. But, from previous relationships, I won't date people of Italian/Greek/Mediterranean or Middle Eastern descent. Not because of religious reasons, but because the family dynamics are so different. I once dated a Greek that was more in love with his sister and mother than he was with me and we dated for two years! He wouldn't even defend me against his mother who called me some horrible things in Greek to my face. He wouldn't tell me what she said so I looked it up myself. So that's that reason. But really, it depends. I actually hated my current boyfriend because he was casually flirting with my friend and I KNEW he was getting her hopes up for no reason. But we played a game together online and I got to get a feel for his real personality and he was just trying to make her feel better about herself, which I still don't approve of guys flirting to make others feel better because that's misleading. He got a raft of shiza from me. But after a while of playing with him online, he made me laugh and then what really made me realize him as a man was the fact that he said he watches Stargate with his dad. Which is something I did at the time with my dad. I mean if you sit and watch Stargate with your dad, you can't be that bad of a person can you? No. So yeah. It all just depends on what triggers you. *shrug*

i watch stargate my dad does not.and if your flirting with people to make them feel better make it blatantly obvious your not coming onto them otherwise yeah its misleading.which is not cool i have no real personality because i am who i appear to be, no hiding (puts box on head and stands behind wall)