Why are "fat girls" like me so unattractive??

Meh its how they were raised and how much the media influenced em, wherer they live, as well as MANY other factors. Personally the "big girls" arent unnattracive to me because it means they arent trying every goddang thing just to impress people and they tend to be themselves more. Sure you have a bit more than those "model bodies" but it just means you dont abuse your body to be the so called "perfect" that media portrays. I thinks its healthy and say, "Screw the media and close-minded individuals"

Everyone is beautiful to someone, there's no such thing as unattractive. It just takes some people longer than others to find that person. In some ways, that might be a good thing.

I have the same problem. I'm not super fat but I sure am not some hot bimbo. Well, just wanted to say you're not alone in that boat ^_^ I just gave up on finding someone who'd appreciate me and stuck with anime instead. Who needs a partner in life anyway. All you need is a dakimakura.

Because of society, love. We're force fed bullshit day in and day out. Whats in, whats not. Whos too skinny, whos too fat. The dress was too slinky, it was too old lady. And really... should you give a shit about that? No. You should be more concerned about how YOU feel about yourself, not what other people think. Because you'll only ever be truly loved, if you love yourself first. Confidence is a DAYUM sexy thing. So if you're comfortable with it, own it. <3