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ryuseven_0
What are your opinions regarding women who want sex every day or guys if you're a girl. Is it a good thing and are there any consequences. Enjoy the topic everyone. :)
killaquilla
I think that if you're in a relationship, sex everyday isn't bad if the feeling is mutual. Its not bad everyday if you're single but i think its a bit much to be bothering ppl for sex all the time.....there's nth wrong wit masturbation.
stand_alone_complex
what is this <i>sex</i> you speak of? I'm afraid it's been ages.
ryuseven_0
Sorry to hear that Stand Alone. Hang in there buddy.
stand_alone_complex
Ahaha. Thank you Endless. My gratitude is eternal.
rainx
Aug 19, 13 at 10:53am
It really comes down to the people involved and what kind of protection (if any) you're using. If you're just randomly going out to bars every weekend and trying for one night stands, (which I don't think very many people on MO are doing) then you're just asking for a ton of trouble. I think if it's two parties in an exclusively monogamous relationship, and you're using adequate protection for not becoming parents at the wrong time (condoms, the pill, etc.) then I don't really see too much of a problem with it. Daily seems like a bit much in all honesty for me personally, but I don't think it's completely unhealthy either. It's unfortunately been a few years since my last LTR where I had that sort of connection with someone and would like to find it again. Sex is a healthy part of any mature relationship and shouldn't be shunned as something icky or gross if the circumstances for it are right.
amezuki
Aug 19, 13 at 11:21am
There is no right answer to how often. It entirely depends on the respective sexual appetites and needs of the people in the relationship. Two people with almost no sex drive might be happy once a month or less. I am personally not them. :)
darthrane
Aug 19, 13 at 2:16pm
I think for a steady relationship its actually pretty healthy I don't think it needs to be everyday though as for random strangers no bueno
kaneanrui
Aug 20, 13 at 2:10am
I'm going to take this as a lifetime committed relationship situation. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, although I think it's healthy to hold off from time to time. I mean, it connects you to each other, but time off reminds you of why you fell in love in the first place. This spoken from a person who is speaking purely theoretical.
xueli
Aug 20, 13 at 9:51pm
I think it depends on your own individual sex drive. Nothing wrong with a high sex drive, male or female, and nothing wrong with a low sex drive, regardless of gender, either. That's something that could cause a problem with a committed relationship if you and your partner's sex drives are significantly different from each other. But that's something that can generally be worked out with communication and compromise.
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