Do you have to be attractive to find love theses days?

soo..i went to the fair and watch some racing and i couldnt help but notice every couple was a hot couple there (mostly blonde heads too o.o') the only couple i didnt see that was "hot" was middle age or elderly couples i barly saw any chubby people there at all that was in a relationship :( i noticed alot of single guys with beer bellies and single girls with just a lil pouch as well my mother ask me a werid question that made me make this thread "why is it only the beautiful people?" hmmm i thought about it and realize that this generation is all fucked up in the head and told my mom people was hypnotize into thinking what beautiful by T.V and it hard to make it in this generation because of all the mind fucked people lol my mother laugh and told me looks are very important theses days soo i wanted people opinions about that do you have to be pretty or into fashion or dress up all the time put alot of make up on and be thin to find love or have a six pack to be loved by someone?is there any hope left?:(

Sooo whats ur answer does look really matter the most and is the most important thing in the world theses days even more important than love itself?.....isnt there a god anymore -_- besides whats so SUPER ABOUT LOOKS?

...i know this girl born different and well she works at the market place she always have a smile on her face even if sometimes i could tell it was fake people...treat her different because she wasnt born with normal hands she was born with three fingers and her hands works backwards too...:( one of her hands was born normal though sometimes i look forward to see her as my cashier :D sometimes i would notice her in a daze staring at guys and girls and then couples i would also watch her expression when she saw couples holding hands.....it so painful...to see her face like that it disheartens me badily and brings tears to my face.. It makes me wanna slap a bitch hahaha xD so everytime i see her a give her my best smile just for her...but seriously is there any hope for people like her or me this generation?or is the only place or country that would accept everybody is africa these days thanks to this fuck up brain washed world. I dont feel sorry for anybody but i do feel sorry for this world

Yes you do have to be attraxtive now before everyone jumps on my back and chokes me out with piano wire let me explain. You need either an attractive personality or attractive body, the thing is you can't determine whether a persons personality is attractive or not at a distance, so yes looks tend to get pushed to the forefront, but that is where personal motivation must come into play I am not the most attractive guy in the world so I am not the first one looked at but I can go up and at least try and make a conversation with a random stranger if my personality is atttactive to them I can follow up with a second meeting

Now I know what evwryone here is think if that is the case why are you here and why are you single, answer because either there was no connection or the girl couldnt handle the anime or the games so thus here I am looking for a woman with at least similar interests :p

People can be beautiful on the outside and all sorts of things on the inside, but you don't really know all these beautiful couples like they know each other so I don't see why it's anyone's business but theirs... just be secure with yourself. The world is fine. I know I wouldn't like to be judged just because of my appearance and that of my significant other. But you can be average and find someone who also may not be seen as a hunk. And guess what? if you're in love for whatever reason (be it appearance or something deeper), you will both look beautiful with each other because of the chemistry.