Why Men get turned down?

This is true, I cannot deny. But with how the world is turning out, it'd difficult not to be cynical and bitter. It's really more of a battle with willpower more than anything.

it's the old as day conundrum of good and evil. since we are all aware of it, we all consume it and release it. it's up to each and every-one of us whether we let good or evil run our lives. but lets face it, we can't all be good therefore we cannot all be evil. therefore we cannot be made of one or the other. good and evil exists... yet if we werent aware of it would it still? maybe humanity would be better off with an innocent ignorance. we can't just blame the world... i fail to see what the world has ever done to anybody. FTW more like FH... eeehhhhhh... i'm going to bed, i get philosophical when i'm tired...

Hmm, seems like it's "creepy" or "weird" for a guy to take interest in a girl now a days. Something as simple as compliment can weird out many girls. Three of my most kind and caring guy friends (and me on one account) seem to always get shafted when they make any little advance on an interest they may have in being with someone. On a few accounts, they've been called creepers and/or have been completely ignored. It makes me nervous to take interest in anyone :/ I have an awkward feeling that I'm doing something wrong when I look at someones profile even when I know I shouldn't feel that way. I don't remember things being so difficult a few years back v . v It wasn't creepy for a guy to like a girl. Maybe media and such has promoted this? Any thoughts?

It's not rocket science... it's physical attraction. Sociology experiments show that for first impressions, 90% of women make their judgment within the first few seconds based on your outer appearance. They found that doing simple things like making sure you're wearing appealing clothes will increase the chance of getting a first date anywhere from 50 to 100%. Of course this won't guarantee anything at all, but it's better to be ahead than behind.

Psh, nonsense. Nothing a little willpower and guts can't do :D Good deeds of the sort are worth it despite how the person you're helping is >:3 <br> Another something that I've ran into a few times when talking to people is that some girls seem to have a problem with how fast a guy tries to take things. Some guys (and girls) want to jump ahead and plan a future right off the bat instead of taking things slow. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but it does seem a little unrealistic and some people find it unattractive >.< I admit I made this mistake awhile back and it did not end so well v.v I thought enough time had passed and we were ready for a relationship. I started making unnecessary pushes. We had already been dating for awhile and were doing certain things that you'd only see couples do, so I thought it was time, but she wasn't ready. She had a few complications that were stressing her in life. In that case, it probably would have been better if I let her decide when and if she ever wanted a relationship. But, that's just one of the many cases in which trying to advance too quickly is likely a bad idea. </br>