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masuji
I have a feeling many women would find it hard to get along with me. For one, I have a LOT of stuff, and I try to keep it organized. I also have very controversial opinions on things and I can find it hard to respect someone's opinion if it is significantly different. I usually prefer my own space, and I expect a partner to have the same standards of quality as I do, i.e. I hate a lot of fast food and I am picky about preparation of food, I usually like to make it myself as a result, if foods not done correctly I do it over. And, just overall, I am not very tolerant towards being needy. I don't consider myself needy at all, and I get annoyed when people arbitrarily are needy. Go figure, but I'm sure I am not the only guy here who thinks like this.
katsuragi93
I'm pretty much a lone wolf type of person, usually resolving and doing things my own way. Well that's because I'm introvert, thus I don't need people to help me with whatever problems I have xD. I also love it when mainstream people exclude me from their activities. Makes me feel more unique than them. Also I never had the need of friends for some reason o.o When I see people stating "omg I'm so lonely, I don't have friends!!" I'm just staring at that person and try to understand this feeling...and I don't o-o Also I'm picky myself. For me nothing is perfect. I ALWAYS will find a flaw into something (food, people, anime etc) So yea, there are other guys who have similar ways of seeing things like you. Yet compared to others, I'm way more closed minded :3
floatsinwater
I think you've answered your own question. The more emphasis you place on small things, the fewer the number of people that can tolerate/like you.
talamar
Feb 22, 13 at 7:55am
Yea I have to agree wth Float there. If you are not willing to compromise and share their interest and feelings it will be hard to find someone that wants to get to know you. If you are stand offish and more of a loner you will be hard to approach. Just my two cents.
ryuseven_0
Sorry for he double post I was editing somehow ended with two
ryuseven_0
Float and talamar are dead on. I think the best thing you can do is be sociable girls feel more at ease approaching you and talking to someone who is. I recently tested the theory since I myself have been a lone wolf. Worked rather well only reason I didn't walk out with a girl was because I was too shy to take things further. You might think you're not being yourself but don't think of it that way. You're only making yourself more accessible to people. That will open up initial interaction however, a girl will only stay for the real you. Just remember that.
masuji
Feb 22, 13 at 3:45pm
Thanks guys. I'm not neurotic by any means about myself but I do know I have certain personality traits that aren't the norm, such as above. @Endless, Thanks for the advice. I am sociable but I don't want my life or activities to stop because some people find it stupid or immature. Yes, I'm that 19-year old that carries around a Gameboy and plays pokemon, or the one who listens to vocaloid music on my ipad speaker because people go around with bad rap music and I like to drown it out.
talamar
Feb 22, 13 at 4:08pm
Hehe I do similar things Masuji. Guess what is even more odd when I do it because I am 36 rofl. Just be yourself and when that right person shows up will be all the better. Cause in thecwords of the adorable Chi "youfound the one that is for you and only you." So good luck.
kawaiidango
I never talked to you, but I kinda got that vibe from your comments
masuji
Feb 22, 13 at 5:23pm
"I never talked to you, but I kinda got that vibe from your comments" Hmm? Can you clarify a bit? Too many possible contexts to really determine that.
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