__ going on __ and still single

20 going on 21. Have very little time to dedicate to a relationship or seek one. I would rather not seek one and lay my fate to just coincidence. I'm not completely anti-social, lolol!!!

@cantthinkofabettername I understand the being a hermit thing. its also harder for me because i live in the woods of pa. But there is such a feeling as love i believe your opinion on the matter of love is driven by your depression of not having love. Just understand this, no one is going to love you if you can't love yourself. You seem like an intelligent and honest person to me. Have faith in yourself :)

I'm 16, I've never gone past kissing and I've only been on a few dates and I've never had a full on serious relationship with anyone. Out of all the boys I've ever been with the only one I really liked broke up with me </3.. My friend's are all more popular with boys than I am, and the only person who ever asks me out is the boy who asks every girl out.. sometimes I feel like I'm in a rut I've been single for a year.

You're right cantthinkofabettername. Infatuation is what we all have really gone through and it's something you can't really call love, truthfully. Out of all the different types of love that people have discovered the closest that infatuation comes to is eros, which I don't even think should have made the list because it's just the temporary satiation of one's carnal appetite. Still, it's because of the knowledge of love and knowing that it's there, that we are spurred to find more of it.