Likes and dislikes! For females.

I like a smart woman. Not just booksmart but streetsmart as well. I like a woman that can catch onto subtle hints. I like a girl tht is very witty and can put me in my place lol like em a littl dominate. I dislike women who get mad for no reason at all ( like pausing a movie or game too much or wanting to watch a diff anime all the time jumpin around) i dislike the overly jelous type trust me no girls like me! Lol if u r my girlfriend then chances are you are the only one i swear. I like them to be of moderate independence a girl that i guess is a little tom boyish can keep up with late nights etc. I dont like whining. I do apologize for that comment. Whining as in always hungry always thirsty always getting upset about somthing small. When i say small i mean small. Whining is fine its the UNESSICARY whining that i dislike. I like the cute type. I say cute as in attitude. I do my best to look past well looks. Because looks are not everything. I also like a woman to be hygenic clean everywhere. Her body treated like a fine machine. I am sorry for going on and on reply and ill be happy to answer ANY question you have if possible. Also list ur likes and dislikes i would love to know more about anyone who took the time read this lol ;)

Well I'm a girl that looks for honesty before anything else. I do like a guy that keeps himself in good condition, you don't have to be a super model but I'd like you to at least care. Aside from that I do like a guy that has a sense of humor, who isn't always in his moods and can confide in me enough to tell me what is bugging him. I don't need a constant chick-flick moment per se be please don't lock me out when I KNOW something is buggin'. I do like a guy that gives me my space, that means I"m going to go out with the girls or alone and enjoy myself. I want him to be able to trust that at the end of the day I only have eyes for him. Don't mind a guy being jealous but please don't deck every guy that says hello or gives me a complement. Games are something I like to play on a regular so give me my game time but feel free to join in. I like feeling protected and safe, pretty small chick here, I am strong but can't stay that way 24/7 sometimes I need a guy to take over the reigns while I compose myself. And did I mention honesty. I don't care what you did/done/ or are going to do, TELL ME! If I find out on my own or from someone else you don't get another chance! Period! Other than that... I guess I'm pretty open to anything.. oh yeah I like teddy bears! Guys who are tall but are not complete muscle.

Unfortunately I can't bring myself to date someone younger than 27 there are mild exceptions but not very many. This isn't to say "shit" won't happen its just my preference at this time. <3

I like guys who are kind, funny and honest. A guy who will listen to my troubles and of course i'll listen to his too. A guy who's not afraid to be romantic at times and a guy who makes me feel safe. And someone who won't mind when I freak out over something cool or really cute. A guy who will watch anime with me and/or play video games with me because it's on of my favorite things to do. Oh someone who is supportive and won't put me down for no reason, although that should be a given.. lol.

I'm totally with you on the whining and jelous types! If you dont have the self confidence, then dont be in a relationship! Damn.... But all that out of the way...I like a guy who can make me laugh and be like my best friend as well as my guy. However...I dislike that romantic bullcrap like candies and hearts and flowers...Blech! I firmly believe that guys need a guys night. Which I am all for because sometimes I need time to be by myself and write or defuse. So long as a guy is honest with me, there's nothing to get mad at. I can tell when some guy is bullshitting just to impress me and I will call him out. I know when someone is doing something they shouldn't and I will insist they fess up. However, if someone is dealing with some serious emotional stuff, I will step back and wait for them to open up at their own pace.

There are many forms of poor self-confidence and an equal number of ways people deal with it. I'd argue that whining and jealousy can exist without poor self-confidence and instead that has to do more with paranoia or possessive personality traits. Of course you're absolutely correct that people like this clearly have issues that should be dealt with before entering a relationship. I'm curious though, do you believe everyone with self-confidence issues (namely those that aren't whining or jealous) are not suited for relationships as well?

Good question. And you're right, there are people who whine for such other reasons as paranoia and jelousy can stem from possesiveness. But yes, I do believe that one should feel comfortable in their own skin before ever entering a relationship such as boyfriend/girlfriend. When one is still struggling to find themselves or even have a reason to keep going, it's difficult to even maintain friendships. Sometimes just having someone call to see how you're doing is confusing and overwhelming to quite a few people. And even if they aren't self-concience to that extreme, I have always had a problem with people either (A) being in a relationship just for the sake of saying they are in one or because they think society requires it of them or (B) being with someone because that and that alone make you feel validated as a human being and that you're worth something. When you enter a relationship, you have to be able to love yourself as well as the person you are commiting yourself to. Otherwise, it more often that not leads to disputes, paranoia (if not already preset), and in some cases-very extreme cases-violence. No one wants that.

nice caring guy whod stick his neck out for me, not jus watch me get trampled. cute looks, short hair or baggy hair, doesn't have to be smart (as I am not all that bright =3=) but has a great personality. oh and has to like what I like :D and has to be older then me, youngers such a turn off =w= pretty simple no D:? (no)

@djlee6 good qualities in a person, have to have that confidence and some form of self worth in order to be comfortable with yourself. Though some people will always have confidence issues no matter what happens. for some people its just deeply ingrained and just need that push to be able to break free from their own psychological chains that hold them back. @momo you're looking for some type of perfect gentleman or something? O.O