Guys-please inform me :D

Lol, guys really dont care where we eat as long is it isnt something we dislike (mostly a non issue). Most guys would rather have a girl ask lots of questions than for her to assume the answer.

Oh good, I hope that's applied to most guys. What about a girl who is really good at observing and reading habits and tells....does that scare guys?

well that is probably on an individual basis. I do not like to be analyzed, categorized and studied. It makes me feel dehumanized and labels put on me and such. I dont mind a woman telling me if they see something that needs to be changed, but dont try to change me. It has to be me who wants to change.

Gotcha, I guess I consciously realize habits and stuff that just tell you you're getting to know the person better, I don't analyze or categorize, and I've never really thought that I was studying, but i get your point entirely.

Yup, I'm doing pretty good concidering... maybe too good...I've existed in the "friend zone" with way too many guys ugh! lol or maybe im too short and chubbi xD

Nah you're cute, you need to be more direct with them and not subtle. Dont be afraid of getting turned down. You never know the guy might be afraid to ask you and you stepping out allows you to change your relationship.

Thanks... -.- I'm also stuck in the cute zone, it's all good though, thanks. And I'm not afraid lol, but right before I get ready to ask a guy out they decide it's the best time in the world to say what an awesome friend I am... =.=

Lol, nothing wrong with being in the cute zone. Lots of guys like cute, me included. And yes that kinda sucks, it sorta slams you deeper into friend zone. :(

Yeah Friend zone sucks, but hey I will not give up hope lol. I don't mind being cute, its just there are other parts of me that shouldn't be cute, personality included. I guess i now feel like cute somewhat puts me in the friend zone, if that makes any sense. But hopefully not on here!!!! XD because otaku is special and not like non anime/manga lovers.