The Worn-Out dating dogma.

Yep that is true having friends on here is a good thing think about it this way what happens when you lose somebody in a relationship who is there to break your fall can you honestly say that friends then are not as important they are the support that keeps you together when you fall there the ones you can count on regardless of what happens

bettername; no, I really don't put much hope online. im just speaking my mind is all. I've had plenty of relationships and only one was an online thing. this isnt even a statement in particular about this website, it goes beyond it to the basis for any relationship.

I do want to have somebody on here but im not against just being friends or even close friends even better besides people need to be more friendly with each other rather then just fight over a girl or something like that by getting more friends around you this connects you to them and then your friends might connect to them this may cause a chain reaction which in the end results in a more peaceful and friendlier site

I do want to have somebody on here but im not against just being friends or even close friends even better besides people need to be more friendly with each other rather then just fight over a girl or something like that by getting more friends around you this connects you to them and then your friends might connect to them this may cause a chain reaction which in the end results in a more peaceful and friendlier site

In my opinion, I don't even think about dating girls because I don't plan on it. Dating happens naturally, I don't want to force it on someone anyways. I only think the reason why girls do that is because they are scared to meet someone on the internet. Hell, I would be scared if I was a girl.

Yes a valid point to why what you mentioned dokujisoul happens that makes both genders to blame i agree with you rawricball thats why i think that we cant shift blame on a specific gender for something like that

I can't say this about other girls, but for me personally, I don't see that people have messaged me or that I have new friend requests. Unless it jumps out at me, I won't remember to check it. Also sometimes guys come on a bit too strong. I personally believe whoever is interested in someone should just go and say something first no matter gender, but not everyone is comfortable with throwing a phone number or whatever out there asap

^^ i agree xueli, and i do try to initiate even though it gets tedious after a while. it would just be nice if people were more transparent, more trusting. it seems like everybody, even reading through most of the comments in this thread alone, still has their guards up, got something to prove. people just need to let go and do what feels right. as for "coming on too strong", sure, some do, but i really doubt I'm that type. more likely the opposite.