I feel like this

Here's the thing, sexism aside, no one knows for certainty what happened to her mentally. But your idea that well I went through shit, this person should too is totally 100% bullshit. Maybe it's because you're still young. But I hope, for your own betterment, that you'll understand more about human mental states. Humans are shaped by our own individual experiences, it's so unreasonable to expect everyone to be able to react the same way to any circumstances. Telling someone to suck it up because you did is just so mind boggling selfish. PTSD is not the same for everyone, neither is depression or even just how one person handles being hounded day in and day out by another. Unless you lived her life, you really have no right to judge her decisions. I don't personally agree with suicide, but I can pity her because of the extraordinary situation she must have face and feel sadden that this girl saw suicide as her only option. And I can respect the aspect of what happened to her if even just one person rethinks the way they treat others because of her death. You say a lot of things, like you're not sexist, or that you don't think she deserves it. I think you even think you mean it. But what you've posted doesn't show those aspects at all

Xueli I missed out on this thread but I have learned so much from your post. I agree with you that most people the first thing they do is judge her actions and say what she did is wrong. People often seek blame first before seeing the bigger picture. This is the first I heard of this story. Wheather or not what she did was wrong isn't the issue here. I am sure her actions are clear to everyone. What's wrong with this picture are the conditions that cause this tragedy to take place. First, why did she feel she had no one to trust in? If anything she should have been able to fall back on her family for support. Even schools have counselors. Now there's even a help line for adults that have crisis. The help is out there. So why did no one help her? Also, I imagine the root cause of the problem isthat every time someone is signal out as a bad person. The first thing humans do is go on witch hunts. Is how Hitler manage to get a whole nation on board. That's my main reason for hating mobs and gangs because people abandon what's right to follow the crowd and don't stop to think things through. Such tragedies could be avoided if caught early by the people around us. Instead of pushing people away and signalling them out. People should reach out and try to figure out the problem. Is easier to do that if you believe that all people have goodness in their heart and deep down there's a reason they might be lost. At least that's how I view the world and my opinion on this tragedy.

Yeah because youtube is the to-go place for top notch counseling. I'm not meaning this in an offensive or condescending way, but seriously, you guys need to grow up. Your attitudes just flip flop from sexist to self-centeredness. The only reason I posted on this topic is because this kind of attitude just really pisses me off. Attitude, not @Sandman personally, just this mind frame on subjects like this.

u guys may look down on someone who has commided suicide but I look down on u for thinking that y do u think they wanna die? cuz there lazy? cuz "well im sad....lets die!" no! to want to die is a serious thing, they want to for a reason, so how about u not be so insensitive look down on a fellow human being in pain.

I do not compare myself to anyone, I use myself as an example, ya it may be tuff, but things get better, it may not be next week, next month, or maybe not even for years, but things do get better. I sympathize for her, because of being bullied and having serious issues, but i can not respect someone who kills themselves. No one knows her full story other than her, not you, not i, not the media, not even her own family.

Also, Rob no one "makes" themselves get bullied. Bullies will always find something to use to harm other people. You also should not have posted a picture like that. Ask yourself this, "if they were alive, what would i do or not do?" In death people should be treated with the basic courtesy as when they were alive, no more, no less.