Is weight

It depends on the preference but at the same time people do change... My good friend use to be just into a certain type of girl which was slim, urban style, long hair, blondes. His now wife is short black haired, a bit overweight, and dresses like a death metal chick. So its just on the outside that attracts a person but whats on the inside is what makes a person fall in love. If people are commenting about your weight just ignore it, feel good about yourself and don't let others judge you for the way you look or dress.

I'm not skinny nor huge, I'm like 40 lbs overweight, hypoglycemic makes it kinda hard to lose weight being on dining hall food (NOT DIABETES, it's different). For me, being obese is a deal breaker. I can't be with someone who is a ticking time bomb of health issues like that. Sorry if thats a little cruel but honestly I won't be someone's health insurance if that happens. On the other hand, if someone is overweight or underweight but isn't unhealthy, it doesn't bother me. Just bothers me if you're to the point where your health is on the line.

Not necessarily, no. I prefer a nice face and a sense of style over weight. But that's hard, since whoever I'm attracted to is either not attracted to my gender, or is taken. Damnit.

People have different definitions and standers on how much weight is to much weight. To me it varies, if it's just a little bit over weight or out right obesity. I can become emotionally attracted to someone regardless of their weight and physical appearance,but physically if they're obese I won't be physically attracted to them at all.

For me, the guy's gotta be at a healthy weight, and not a lot of tummy pudge (I prefer the men that I'm attracted to to have a swimmer's build instead of the typical bodybuilder stereotype). There's several guys I've met over the net that I've initially been interested in b/c of personality, but then I see a picture and stamp on the brakes b/c he's heavier than a friend of my brother's. I just can't feel truly attracted to someone if he doesn't have both the personality and the looks. Now, as for myself, I have tried off and on to lose weight. I've seen the starts of results, it just seems that other priorities like college have knocked getting down to a healthy weight down to a far lower rung. I've been starting to debate whether or not it'd be truly worth it to go on a medically supervised diet and excersize program while I'm so close to graduating with my Associate's of Arts. I just want a guy to love me for who I am, not a weight (this goes for both sliding up the scale and down it as well).