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Is there such a thing as too much in common?

misschisa
Ok, so i'm single again. I met this awesome guy that lived an hour away from me... i was really starting to fall for him and we dated for about a month. We met once and talked everyday Well all of a sudden one day he says that he isn't happy and that we have too much in common and that he felt no chemistry. I was shocked... speechless... anyway tell me what you guys think.
digitalwolf001
For some yes, they end up feeling like the other person is to much like themselves. Most times though it means they found someone else, and they just don't want to burn that bridge in case it doesn't work out.
misschisa
yea he did say he still wanted to be friends... and well...we still are friends... but i have to admit it really hurt.
digitalwolf001
I'm sorry he wasn't Mr. Right, but it only means Mr. Right is still out there waiting,or searching for you.
misschisa
Same to you. May you find true happiness.
digitalwolf001
lol I love when ppl say that. I always wonder if they understand true happiness involves epic arguments with equally epic moments of tenderness and love. The bad times make the good times so much more sweet.
misschisa
100% agreed you cant have the good without at least a little of the bad... it brings you closer together especially if you can over come the bad times together.
digitalwolf001
Have you ever got broken up with because "we argue to much" and thought back thinking the arguments were at a perfectly healthy level?
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