Unpopular opinions

No i dont feel it is overused how many of those guys you think actually care she is sad vs how many wanna be there to comfort her in the event it leads to something more. Simping is basically saying things someone might like to hear or agreeing with them all to get them to like you.

Thats pretty true, women get more attention here because there’s way more men than women. But it’s never always positive attention. Yes they might ask how a woman is feeling after she posted about being sad but in return they expect them to give something in return. (I’m just generalizing) A lot of men expect women to give out just because they’re nice to them for a bit, some also try to make themselves look pitiful just so they can pressure the women to date them..

@hell_hound7 I know what simp means. Of course desperate/creepy/simp men exist. However, you can say the same for both genders. Plenty of women play the game. Look, creepy men suck. I don't understand because I'm not a creepy guy myself, its just I believe if you want to find a relationship you need to better yourself. Not get stuck on what others are doing.

It's natural to men reach out to women rather than the opposite. You can blame a new rise of simps because men are too cowardly to better their lot. A generation comprised of superficial and depressed people who do all kinds of crazy shit to cope with their perceived emptiness of contemporary life. Some use drugs, while others simp for e-girls. The horn will come for them nonetheless.

In short: not girls' fault because there are simps. Some bitches just take advantage of a new market created by men.

@lilyyazawa no i agree you improve your self and you find a relationship this is true. But there is a difference between improving and catering. I have been on both sides of the spectrum while catering more less just leads to you being taken advantage of (relationship or not) improving is basically you seeing that you dont need anyone to make YOU happy. You find what makes you happy on your own not expect someone will change that for you. Being a simp is catering. Can women simp as well absolutely but from what i have seen its more often than not males who simp the most. You never see memes about women donating thousands of dollars to men.

If you need a girlfriend/boyfriend to make you happy then you are doing it wrong. You are supposed to share your happiness with your partner. As I said though, women do play the game. They dress a certain way to attract men and plenty of women say/do things to compete with other females, even online. There are even women on discord who act super perverted/flirty knowing men will likely react. They don't need to simp the same way because there are countless men online they can pick between, but that doesn't mean every woman you meet online doesn't want a relationship. Women just play the game in a different way and it's probably due to gender roles (i hate gender roles but yeah). Men tend to chase and that is probably why there are more cringe stories on men.

It’s better to not rush into a relationship to escape being lonely, and to wait for the perfect partner. Than to rush into a relationship to escape being lonely.