What do you consider a deal breaker?

some one who lies to me over and over again who abuses me mentally verbally and physical who trys to turn me aginst my freinds and family or them against me some one who doesnt cherish me for the person and trys to force me to be someone im not those are all deal breakers for me ^_^

Well, there aren’t so many deal breakers; I’m not too complicated I think. But of course there are some things I can’t stand and I could never accept or tolerate in a relationship. 1. Cheating, lying, betraying, being hypocritical, flirting with other girls. This one is an absolute NO-GO, I couldn’t and wouldn’t accept. When someone’s betraying me or lying to me about serious things, that means the end of the relationship and there won’t be any friendship then anymore. I am an honest and loyal person and I demand that my partner is honest and loyal towards me as well. 2. Being unhygienic I think that everyone should at least know what “bath” and “shower” means. The hygienic aspect is really important for me, who is an overly hygienic girl which likes everything to be clean and neat. I don’t think that others need to be overly hygienic too, but a normal hygienic standard must be ! 3. Intolerance towards my opinions and points of view. I am a freethinker and I do have my own opinion and build my own opinions about new subjects and I want that my opinion is accepted. Since I do tolerate other opinions too, even if they are the total opposite of what I think about that subject. Everything can be discussed and I like to discuss in a mannered, logical and argumentative way. What I can’t stand is, when people start to insult, start to get emotional in a discussion about a factual topic and just won’t accept that other people have different opinions than they have. The moment when this person doesn’t even listen to what one has to say anymore and is just going to ignore everything. It’s important for me, that differences will be all right and the guy doesn’t try to force his point of view on me. I accept other opinions and believes, so accept mine as well. 4. Girly acting men and over doing of cliché romance I don’t like it when men totally act like girls . It’s not that I have anything against men who are like that, but I can’t fall for a guy like that. One guy, a former friend of mine, had a crush on me and he was one of these kinds of men. I was sorry for him, but it just won’t do. Girly like men won’t be able attract me in anyway, it’s nothing personal, it’s chemical …. 5. And the one which is a deal breaker for nearly everyone and what no one normally would accept: Drugs, being criminal, being abusive in a physical and/or mental way. (I mentioned it last, because it’s too obvious that this won’t do and I’d never accept such a thing.)

I don't have much for deal breakers. Any "reasonable" and/or "normal" person is unlikely to have something I just couldn't live with. For the rest, I don't cope well with: -Drugs -Alcoholism -Being angry and/or confrontational literally all the time -Being completely detached and/or unfaithful -Complete disregard for health and/or hygiene. I'm not terribly stringent here, but be reasonable. All but point 4 could even be negotiable, as long as the person could admit they have a problem and would commit to fixing it.