Empicca's Territory

@amarantha Part of it is psychological from what I hear... a friend of mine who is a psychologist told me once that it was a common trait he seen some of his patients exhibit. The crux being it was a common-trait that was attributed to people who have some issues being assertive and uncertain. I can see it in a sense, Once upon a time I was like that, nervous about even crossing the street during heavy-traffic, but now that I've aged and have enough life experiences, I kinda don't care anymore honestly.

@amarantha Don't put yourself down before you've started, We all are still growing and overcoming obstacles. The common issue in modern society is that we give up on ourselves even before we actually start anything. We say we are broken before we've actually built anything of ourselves.

Example would be me, I used to be deathly afraid of driving, but with time I was able to gradually expose myself to it and become confident in it, eventually the point where I metaphorically "slayed the dragon" in my mind. But it wouldn't make sense to call myself a bad driver before I actually started driving... you get what i'm saying? @amarantha