Anonymous Confessions -Ultimatix-

60. Just come out and say it. It's risky but the only way. 61. Hot

73. "People pretend to like me on a surface level because I'm too annoying to be bothered with if they upset me. "

74. I have masturbated in every single one of my jobs, I've been paid to literally touch myself for half an hour at times

75. Listen to them and talk about things together when they wish to talk about it. Understand it takes time to heal and boundaries need to be set in place so healing can be done. Be patient and show them that not all relationships have to be built on an abusive and toxic foundation filled with lies, violence, and trauma. Overall just wait and be patient and do not try to rush things, you're in it together.

@Confession 75...I think you should start w yourself. Like ask yourself, do I really like this person? Do i really want to be in a relationship w this person? Am I willing to make sacrifices? Am I ready to experience hardships w this person? Know the other persons past, likes, dislikes, every detail. Cause then youll have the idea on how to love and handle the other person. Talk about each others love language. Also, patience is the key. Like for real. But i tell you, most people who survived abuse are the ones hard to understand and love, but when they open up to you, and when they love you back, they love hard. If youre only gonn think of yourself and your needs, just stop i guess. We dont want to add more trauma. Haha