Aylo's Aven a' wisdom

Lesson XLIV: "Be crazy enough to think that you can change the world"

Lesson XLV: "don't let showing your love become weird. Someone should not think that your telling telling them that you love them means something bad is happening/about to happen."

Lesson XLVI: "Sometimes you need to know when to shut the hell up"

Lesson XLVII: "To disregard someone's humanity, autonomy, and agency when making plans or decisions involving them is equal parts cruel and foolish"

Lesson XLVIII: "if you're gonna be late to work in a snowstorm. Then get there when you get there. It is not worth your life to rush"

Lesson XLIX: "If the only time you ever come to one of your "friends" is with problems that need solving and not for fun or engagements then they probably don't see you as a good friend. More likely as an annoyance"

Lesson L: "Your autonomy is a muscle you need to exercise. Do things just because you want to sometimes"

Lesson LI: "Learn to be outcome-independent when speaking to people. If you try to frame a casual conversation with a goal (get him to like me enough to ask me out/get them all to speak on a specific subject/ make her feel a particular emotion/get their number), then you may find yourself seeing that conversation as a failure if that goal isnt met. Sometimes it's better to just let the speaking flow and enjoy it for whatever it is."