Bad advice

Be a man push your emotions down so you don't appear weak till you blow up and kill your family. Works every time. Edit: Cause you know if you never admit as a pillar that your weak how are they suppose to know your about to break from there added pressure. Then boom you can catch them off guard. Instead of asking for there support. If you tell em your weak they might think lesser of you and disrespect you instead of caring for you they don't care about your world or want to communicate and you can't tolerate that so tolerate it and pretend to be strong the pillar of the family until one day just the slightest pressure breaks you because you was carrying it alone.