Falling for...

So... I'm starting to have feelings for this Older woman... shes about 10 yrs my senior and has a kid in Highschool. I hate admitting it but even as old as I am I get the butterflies when i try and talk to her. It doesnt hurt that even at her age shes gorgeous and there's no way at least like 6 other guys could vie for her. But she's always friendly on FB and at work. We even talk outside work sometimes and I ... eh .. idk. What do older girls think of guys younger then them? Not just limited to the age ranges I am and she is i guess.

I don't think there's anything wrong with you dating someone who is in her forties, especially if you think she is interested. A kid in high school really isn't all that uncommon with someone her age. From my experience, I think it can be flattering for some older women to have younger guys attracted to them because it makes them feel younger and more appreciated themselves. My only real concern with your situation would be the co-worker situation. imo, dating co-workers is a big no no, especially if you work in the same area. If things would become awkward or go south in the relationship, it doesn't take much for a whole bunch of major drama to start and one and/or both of you leaving the job to get away from it. Just something to take into consideration if you consider pursuing this avenue.

At your age man I think the scope of who you can date is a bit more open. At your age assuming I wasn't married I'd feel fine dating girls in their 20's or in their early 40's. It's mainly up to you man if you think she likes you and you like her back and you feel like you can take on all her responsibility and baggage mainly that teenager. (teens are a scary time to be taking care of a kid) :/ but I think it's just like with any other person age is usually just a number sure they might have a little more experience than you in certain things but a lot of the time I've noticed older women like younger guys because of stuff like it gives them confidence and makes them feel young. I'm sure theirs other reasons and this is coming form a 20 year old guy so take it for what it is.