Your Past Breakup Causes

I’ve grown a lot as a person since my previous relationship, made some mistakes, done some stupid shit that I will never forget. And as I am aware my Ex is in this thread, I think that it’s important to understand the bigger picture and what both parties can do to improve themselves, if you don’t take responsibility for the mistakes you have made and trick yourself into thinking that you were always right, you will never learn. Regarding the relationship in question there were definitely several elements of manipulation, and emotional immaturity at play within both sides, I can’t deny that I don’t have some of these traits, especially when looking back at the whole relationship. But it was clear to me and several other people who I have accessed this with that, most of the severe cases of those traits were within my ex. You could argue that I am biased In my assessments with other people, due to how I am as a human being, no matter in some form whether that be severe or minor depends on several factors. But I have searched common examples of this kind of behaviour online and I have come to this conclusion. I never want to go back to this kind of relationship again, and to all those associated with her who have decided to deem me as completely wrong, not even asking me about it in any form and haven’t taken the time to completely understand, compare and learn the truth, I expected better from you people. I’ll end this with a final note. As a person you can know as much as your potential holds up to, whatever that maybe, but if your mental health is spilt in half due to how you operate, then you will never be able to learn, articulate and use your imagination in the best way that you possibly can.

My ex broke up with me because his friends were more important than our relationship. Yet he was the one who listens to his friends, he always saying he was "busy", he never took me out on the real date because he needs his friends to come with us if we're going to have a special date(s), and he always blaming me for his issues that I'm not involved with. We've been gone to cons and I love to cosplay when I go but he didn't like me to cosplay cause it looks too weird or embarrassing and my ex always left me alone at the cons or somewhere.

The causes of my breakups were all the same. The first ex admitted to cheating on me with a co-worker at the restaurant she worked at, eww. The second cheated on me with her own brother, double eww. Pretty much every ex from 3 to 10 did the same thing with complete strangers after her, so loyal women are extremely hard to find. It's hard enough to want to give dating a chance, when so many single women have lied and hurt you before, but when it goes on for years and years, it becomes more predictable. I never cheated my entire life, but when you get use to women cheating on you, you wonder why you even bother. One minute it's - "If you were my boyfriend, I'd never do that to you." the next "Go kill yourself." 20 years later, nothing has changed. Despite being hurt by one cheater too many, I don't have a problem giving chances. The problem is the other person taking advantage and not showing any empathy for my suffering. Broken hearts are like flower seeds. If you neglect to water them with compassion and warm them with affection, they won't grow or heal on their own. A serious relationship is a team effort and alot of times the women I dated get bored of having just one man in their life. They become too selfish to plan things together, stop being so affectionate when we're together and stop working with me as a responsible family unit. In general, they preach more than they practice and fail to give up the habits they had when they were single. I'm living proof even being a gentleman is not easy, when you try to be everything a woman wants and still not be good enough to satisfy her. A woman who can't empathize with a broken gentleman's pain is not ready for a serious relationship, anymore than a bad boy is ready for one when he neglects to empathize with a good lady's pain. For me, true love is not a baseball game. Once is a lesson to my trust, but twice is an insult to my forgiveness. There is no 3rd strike when it comes to serious dating. I'll be fair with you, but the second you get hostile and hypocritical for no reason, you're on your own. Dating is suppose to be about sweet reassurance, quality time, compassion and proving you're better than the rest, not making someone relive a painful past they don't deserve. I love a challenge, but I can't say the same for the exes I gave chances to that they threw away so dishonestly. What a blessed day that would be to meet a woman who wants the same commitment I do and tired of being hurt by pathetic two-faced cheaters.

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I've had quite a few reasons. First one I would count was just because it was young love. Second one was because I wasn't mature enough at the time to deal with her trauma from being raped. Third one was because she was too busy, meeting once every 2 months isn't dating. Fourth one was an on and off for a long time, ended because her bipolar wasn't compatible. Fifth one was kinda a desperation girlfriend, she didn't put in effort to much at all.

The first one broke up with me cause I was too shy to do anything The second one I broke up with cause she cheater The third I broke up with for lying too much The fourth broke up with me cause I was an asshole and didn't really consider her feelings which hurt the most since she was my first love and the only one of them that I kissed, but because of her I learned that I was a jerk and changed who I was so that I wouldn't hurt anyone like that anymore The fifth was a mutual break up cause it just didn't feel right The sixth broke up with me due to mental issues that aren't mine to talk about The seventh broke up with me cause she seemed to have gotten bored of me