I wish i could bring myself to do things

I know how it is. I definitely want a gf. Or at least female friends. I don't wanna be desperate and cringeworthy though.

Me and you both man. Just a year out of a 6 year relationship and I feel desperate no matter what I do. It's like I lost my self confidence or something over the years. I would love to find a gf, or bf whatever, but first I think I need to make friends.

I do things like working so as not to do things in future, and not to regret doing nothing when I'm unable to do things..:d

Yeah working is definitely a good distraction and beneficial use of time. Hang in there pheonix! There are absolutely more losers than not out there, but I promise it'll be worth it once you meet someone who isn't! Regardless if you're after friendship or a relationship, good people are out there!