Found my match and it is time to say goodbye.

And you only needed to be a sociable chill and nice dude. Who would have thought it was that easy. ...who am I kidding, that's not easy. Not for me rofl

Long distance is tricky and often stressful. Be sure the person actually wants to meet up in person and doesn't keep trying talk through social media. I've met people like that on this site. They may talk a good game but if they're giving a lot of convenient promises without any reliable assurance this person is who they claim to be watch out. Also if they dodge important questions about themselves but find no issue digging into your personal life then don't be afraid to drop the relationship.

Gratz my dude! Hope you'll be happy!

Y'know i keep seeing this thread on my feed and i can't help but wonder What in God's name am i doing wrong

My guess is maybe just start messaging random people? No idea since I’ve not tried much but it seems like a logical solution to me

yeah. getting out of your comfort zone and messaging people you like really helps. Don't wait for people to message you. Message them first or you mught miss an oppertunity to get to know someone. i speak from experience.