dumped my gf

Ive always been the one to be broken up with so i never understood how someone could feel all that bad when they brought it upon the relationship. Genuinely curious how that works. Any reason you did anyways?

I know that feeling - usually I'm the one who gets dumped. It's been such a problem for me that I feel I may be the issue myself and I'm legit thinking about giving up on all that romance stuff altogether - at least for a while. Like sure I'm far from perfect and I have my issues but seeing how quickly and easily someone drops me, it's no wonder - whether it be a partner or friends as I've been losing a lot of them lately. It's why nowadays when I meet someone new, I front load a number of the more quirky and out there aspects about my personality - that way I'm not wasting so much time on people who would end up ditching me months or even years in. If people are cool with parts about me such as my lewd sense of humour (even though that stuff can be fun and really wholesome when talking about it legit with the right people), my trust issues, my small disabilities, the fact that it can take time for me to respond because I'm busy or need alone time or the fact I can type a butt load most of the time and a few other things then that's amazing and can easily see myself befriending that person and wanting to spend a lot of time with them. It's why nowadays I have friends who are really amazing and I appreciate them with all my heart, even if I can be a bit much sometimes but also why people think I'm bit of an odd one or weird or just generally uncool - which is probably also a good thing as it shows I definitely won't get on with those people neither and they won't get on with me and honestly, I'm okay with that, I don't take it personally and I still wish those people well at the end of day. All it really comes down to for me is that my intentions are wholesome and I just want to make people smile and laugh with fun and interesting interactions and if people won't accept me for who I am then that's their loss at the end of the day, not mine. That's how I approach friendships and relationships nowadays and honestly - I'm just a much happier person this way.