Eve's confusion

I'll call the flirty ex Guy#1 and the newest ex Guy#2 I think you should distance yourself from Guy #1 and tell him you need some time by yourself, then, take a month or two to stabilize everything, because every breakup always leaves something behind that needs to be patched up afterwards... The reason for this is, because if you don't take some time for yourself, to stabilize and move on fully you will unconsciously use Guy#1 for stability, affection and whatever that is missing from your everyday life, not to mention, you're probably on a vulnerable state right now, which would make it easy for him to take advantage in whichever manner he wished to (assuming of course he wanted to do it) so it's gonna be a trickery from both sides even if you two didn't wanted to go for it at all. The reason why I mention this is, you described a very commonplace teenage scenario, take some time to heal up and chill, afterwards if you want to pursue a relationship you'll develop actual feelings because you want HIM and not because you need just "someone" to give you pretty words and attention

im just gonna dump all my weird stuffy sruff here, ok so it turns out he definitely probably doesnt like me bc he was flirtkng and i was srta faling for it and he told me "eve, u need to have higher standards or else any guy will sweep you off your feet" and i was so embarrassed. he's right though, like I crush easily. I really need to work on that. it is what led me to my last relationship wich was a complete mess. i dont wanna be in that situation againso ill do my best not to let boys and girls take me!!