What is a moment that defines you?

A moment in your life, such as having a child, finding a hobby that you never dropped, anything that has kind of made you the person you are today and you can look back and smile about?

well, if its for the good then I guess making friends in 8th grade. they helped me come out of my shell and i felt happy everyday going to school just to talk to them. however, im remembered by the bad things ive done which is sad because i was going through dark times.

For seriousness? Probably that time I beat the shit outta my step dad after he hit my brother with a bat. For my mental health? When I realized Traps were the superior waifus.